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bad story, need help coping.

neighbor who has full grown shephard (who's gotten loose and wandered our street nearly being hit by a car) got one of the kittens @ Ed's shop. Warning-this ends badly. I don't know what happened exacty but owner of dog now hates him and the kitten is dead. A little back story" person has "borrowed" a large ***'t of items incl my kitten hutch and a baby litter pan NONE which have been ret'd. I'm so full of rage and when I see the dog i completely ignore him and attempts for affection and can't acknowledge female dog owner. I don't actually want to know but HOW DID THIS HAPPEN???? I told my husand they better not bring another kitten home to try again and he said NO. The kitten had a safe hutch to stay in if dog wasn't supervised and...i'm just sick over this. My question is, I suppose, is how can I move on when I'm so full of rage about this? This is a kit from where we saved our Scout. I AM sure it was a thoughless accident but am still so very upset about this needless loss. Am crying now.I've been getting angry at this person over an accumm. of other things and this just ..I don't see how to keep the friendship. Any kind helpful thoughts so much needed.
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Don't let title scare you away from reading and helping me-am also coing w/ recovering from pneumonia, thrush, and new anxiety meds so truly need all the nelp I can get!! Even just an encouraging word will be much appreciated!!
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aww hon I am so sorry for all this happening to the poor dear little kitty, I don't blame you for being upset....upset is a light word, i mean enraged!!! life can do such cruel things to the little innocents and it breaks my heart too.
and you've not been well either, I do hope that you are recovering rapidly and will soon feel a tremendous amount improved....the new anti anxiety meds should help....I know I sure have to rely on them occasionaly too...take care of yourself, do you hear anything from Jade59? she hasn't posted in weeks..sending you some ((hugs))
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No-I've been concerned about her as well. We normally talk daily..
Thanks for answering, I just needed a little support in an awful situation.
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It's never easy to make sense out of the senseless.

You have to hang on to the good that you do and use that as a buffer.
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woops-I don't recall saying a "bad" word needing editing out there-sorry about that!!!! I know better than that! Thanks everyone who replied and listened and I truly appreciate the support!!
"Large amount of items" is what I recall writing, not sure what happened there...
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First of all, you are justified for feeling the way you do.  That needs to be acknowledged in order for you to be able to move on.  Everyone needs a hug and a shoulder to cry on from time to time.  I agree with Pip that it's never easy to make sense out of the senseless.

It's important not to let this make you bitter, because you don't want this to turn you into a different person.  
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