I am 43 years old, and have been having all of these symptoms since I was about 34. I am seriously crying right now because I have almost every symptom of Chiari Malformation. No one could help me or believed me until I had this MRI this past Monday. I can barely see now, have horrible pain in my neck, shoulders, and head. I cannot recall words quite often (it's really embarrassing), and here recently, my dizziness is constant. I have been ashamed of the fact that I have pee "accidents" ( that I could not control at all). What should I expect at my first neurologist appointment? If he/she does not know about Chiari Malformation, should I find one that does? I'm so scared I'm going to break down if this neurologist treats me like I'm imagining all of this again.