Nikki First off I would like to send my deepest sympathy be cause I myself and having one of those how you should call it is no trem anloogy what so ever but my step son in the past three years has been diagnosed with A.S.H.D (attention defacite hyperactivity disorder) as well as bipolar (mood disorder) ans then of course is mannic depression and he is omly nine he has a very high I.Q. and pretty much manipulates the system and he would """""LOVE""""" control over me and my house hold amd I'm really not prepaired to give that up although some days I feel I should just throw in the towel and walk awy but then you would be the only one hurting there and he would be 150% happy because he finally suiceeded and now it's him and daddy or vise versa and we have to stand tall and stromg amd hold our ground and place noe don't get me wrong I am the last women you will even se ebring the perfect mommies that you see and they make you sick trust me I've had visions of conflicting pain on to him but then like I said he would be winning and I can't do that so all my luck yto you and please don't let them wim and hang in there
Nikki First off I would like to send my deepest sympathy be cause I myself and having one of those how you should call it is no trem anloogy what so ever but my step son in the past three years has been diagnosed with A.S.H.D (attention defacite hyperactivity disorder) as well as bipolar (mood disorder) ans then of course is mannic depression and he is omly nine he has a very high I.Q. and pretty much manipulates the system and he would """""LOVE""""" control over me and my house hold amd I'm really not prepaired to give that up although some days I feel I should just throw in the towel and walk awy but then you would be the only one hurting there and he would be 150% happy because he finally suiceeded and now it's him and daddy or vise versa and we have to stand tall and stromg amd hold our ground and place noe don't get me wrong I am the last women you will even se ebring the perfect mommies that you see and they make you sick trust me I've had visions of conflicting pain on to him but then like I said he would be winning and I can't do that so all my luck yto you and please don't let them wim and hang in there
Dear Nikki,
I understand that you do not have legal custody of Jordan, so there might be a limited amount you can do. But, you mentioned that you, your husband and Jordan's mother now get along well, so perhaps yopu can have some influence. Jordan is displaying signs of serious emotional disturbance and is in need of professional intervention. Anything you can do to help him obtain such assistance would be important.