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Child Behavior (Expert Forum)
AS Question
Answered by
Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development
AS Question
by Reasmom, Oct 03, 2007 09:56AM
My daughter is 11 and was dx'ed with ADHD when she was 8. She takes meds which do help, however I have noticed several other problems she is having that the medication is not helping with at all. The major problem she is having is that she has no friends and she does not get along well with other children her age. I recently discovered that she sits by herself at recess. I am really concerned with the fact that she is having such a difficult time with making or keeping friends. I have been reading ADHD for dummys and it says that sometimes children have several problems and some are overlooked. I looked up Aspergers syndrome and am wondering if she might have it. My main question I guess is, is it possible to have AS and be able to make eye contact with people? Any help would be much appreciated. Reasmom
Doctor's Answer
by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Oct 03, 2007 01:31PM
, Oct 03, 2007 01:31PM
Yes, children with Asperger's Disorder are often able to establish eye contact, so her ability to establish eye contact would not, in and of itself, rule out that diagnosis. Relative to the medication, diminished social contact is not generally a side effect of psychostimulants. Did she display more advanced social skills prior to taking medication? Has her demeanor changed after she started taking medication? If there is really no change in her baseline state in this regard, you needn't suspect a problem with the medication. In order to enhance social functioning, some form of group treatment is preferable to individual therapy/counseling. Ask about this at school; some schools offer social skills groups or social problem-solving groups. Also, check with her insurance company about providers in your area who offer groups for children her age. Finally, if she is not enrolled in recreational opportunities with peers, arrange for something. The activity itself isn't as important as the need to interact with peers.
Member Comments (3)
by portuguese mom, Oct 03, 2007 11:18AM
To: reasmom
hi.
by portuguese mom, Oct 03, 2007 11:26AM
To: Reasmom
You might ask the doctor if the med is impacting her abitlity to be social. I have read some literature stating that some ADHD meds, Ritalin for example, are not good for certain kids with ADHD because impacts their ability to socialize. I believe that there are other medications for ADHD that are better at controlling ADHD and also insure that the child is still able to socialize. I am not sure if Dr. Kennedy has an opinion on which ADHD medications improve peer relations or minimize the symptoms of hyper focusing that impact their ability to make friends. A social skills class will also help her, most of all if you suspect AS. Good luck.
