Hi
I am a 12th grade student from Monroe Michigan. I think homework is pointless, but I have to do a discussion in my speech class about the importance of homework and how homework prepares you for the future. So please write something about that.
Thanks
Jackie
Dear Ms. Welch,
There certainly are instances in which motivation/investment is the key issue, and this cannot be provided externally. Children vary a great deal relative to the amount of drive and dedication they exhibit around their academics. And the early teen years are times when investment often turns elsewhere.
I basically endorse the approach you are adopting. You are basically saying that your son, not you, must respond to the academic challenge if he is to be promoted. You can offer him encouragement, support, and sensible limit setting, but he must choose to do the work if it is to be done. The consequence of not doing it, of course, is to repeat the year.
Now, there can be conditions which do not manifest themselves to any significant degree until junior high or so. Some children with attentional problems do OK at the elementary grades - they get by on their native intelligence in a curriculum that is not particularly challenging. But when the subject matter gets more complicated and challenging, their inattention becomes more pronounced. So I would definitely rule this out, as you have done relative to learning disability and mood disorder.