We have done genetic testing, MRI,( not psych. yet,on waiting list ) to help find out what is up with my 4 yr ,old son. Dysmorphic features, (wideset nasal bridge, lowset ears, almond shaped eyes?), aggressive behavior recent onset (last 1 yr.), a regression of previously learned skills, fits of rage for almost an hour sometimes, and wont sleep at times. The problem that I am dealing with right now is putting things in his rectum. All the time. If he is not being watched, he is rolling toilet paper, putting q-tips, marbles, magnets, balls, toys, whatever is avaliable in his behind, at school, home, where ever. This has been going on for almost a year and he always poops it out. He is embarrased by this and will not talk about it except to tell me what object he used and he doen't always tell me. He had 4 heart defects at birth and at 6 wks old stopped breathing. Lots of allergies when he was little (we had him tested). Retested at three , and he had grown out of a lot of them. Has finally stopped having ear infections, pnuemonia, colds. Been well physically. Just lot of sleep problems, temper stuff, weird masterbation stuff (he has an errection when he is doing his anal stimulation), oh, and has been potty trained since 2 (day/night both) has been tee-teeing in his pants at school and once at home and once in bed. Has been in the same daycare since he was 6 mos. and we changed to a preschool program in Sept. a lot of problems started after this..we changed schools again in May. I am seeing an adult psych. (Biploar) am I the problem? I'm stable on topamax/lamictal. Mixed episodes. Can't get into the pedi psych here, they are over loaded..I need to know how to get this anal stimulation stuff to stop. Its very upseting to everyone who has to clean it, smell it, walk in on it, but it seems to be vey relaxing to him, he even breathes differently when I have walked in on these little episodes. What is this. Normal? Maybe a phase?