I would have called the police If I had kids that try to kill one othier brothers.
Fiancee, I am very sorry. As you pointed out, it appears that not all of the information was provided in the original post. If you think this relationship is worth saving, and you are already in counseling, do you think this counselor is helping your family? Do you think it might be time to find another counselor who can better serve the needs of you, Michael and your children? Again, I apologize to you. It doesn't look like we were getting the whole story at first.
this is The EVIL FINACE responding I am not evil nor am I childish, The father Just not see all the bad behavior that his son does behind his back and he does not want to face it and so I HAVE to protect My youngest son from his oldest brother. His oldest brother tried to drown his 5 yr old brother in the pool just 2 months ago and he has also physically attacked me and also made up lies about us and his father knows this.
I Will walk away from this just so that Brett and you can be happy and so I Can't be YOUR PROBLEM and You can be happy but next time just make sure that when you post comments about our lives that you post all of the truth as in how and when Brett attacked the 5 kids in school and left Bloody welts on them and when he killed the kitten and his suspensions from school and off of the school bus and his admittence when he attacked me and left scars on my arm in March and how mean he is to shayne and other to adults and how his own grandmother doesn't even want her at his house because of his behavior and his atitude etc........I'll get out of your life Michael
I grew up in a stepfamily. My mom was not married to my real father and when I was almost four years old, she married a man who had 3 kids of his own. He was never nice to me, and from the beginning, even as little as I was, he picked on me. I was too afraid of him to strike back, and my mom acted like she didn't see that there was a problem, even though everybody else could see that her husband didn't like me very much. I grew up resenting him and to this day I think about the way things were and it makes me very angry. It drove a wedge between my mom and me for quite a while. It sounds like your fiancee is extremely childish. She has no business calling your son evil. She knew you had a son when she got involved with you. It sounds like you need to let your finacee know that she needs to really make an effort, along with the rest of the family, to work on this problem...or that you may not be able to continue your relationship with her. And then get yourself a good lawyer so she can't pull anything underhanded where the 5-year-old son that you and she have is concerned. Where is your oldest son's real mother? Does he stay with her part of the time, or does he live with you full time? Don't let your fiancee come between you and your oldest son. The pain that will come from a destroyed relationship with your son will last a lot longer than the pain you will feel if things don't work out between you and this extremely childish-sounding woman.