My stepson has been through a lot in his life, and I'm wondering if that has anything to do with his lack of bowel control. His mother used to leave him with strangers so she could be free to drink and do drugs, she even sank so low that she was living in a car with the children at one point (when my stepson was around 4 years old.) She cleaned up her act when we filed for custody, but now my stepson (who is 10 years old now) is soiling his pants on a regular basis when he is with her. This all started a few years ago, and when we took him to the doctor he was diagnosed with encopresis and immediately put on Miralax, which helped at first - but doesn't seem to now. Everytime we pick him up from his mother's house he has soiled pants. I'm afraid this is going to cause even more emotional damage with the embarassment and humiliation. When he is at our house we have him on a schedule, he has to sit on the toilet about 35 minutes after he eats and try to go. If he doesn't, then we wait 2 hours, then have him try again. He says he doesn't know why he has accidents, and is very embarassed and sad about it. I have tried to talk to his mother about it and she just wants to shove more medicine down him - blaming it all on encopresis - but I don't think this is the answer. I am frustrated and worried about my stepson's emotional health, and his own mother doesn't seem to care. He is fine when he is at our house because we keep a close eye on him and remind him to go, keeping him on a schedule really helps. On the label of Miralax, it says "use no more than 7 days" and his mother has been giving it to him for more than 2 years (he doesn't take it when he's with us.) Does anyone have any suggestions?