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Child Behavior (Expert Forum)
Potty Training our 4 year old
Answered by
Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development
Potty Training our 4 year old
by Joel H, Sep 30, 2005 12:00AM
Our 4 year old boy can hold his pee for hours and hours. His diaper is dry in the morning unless his diaper was dry for hours prior to going to bed. Sometimes he is willing to sit on the potty. Sometimes we make him sit on the potty when he is not wanted too. He has yet to go while he has been on the potty.
Doctor's Answer
by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Sep 30, 2005 12:00AM
, Sep 30, 2005 12:00AM
The pattern you describe is typical of children who are on the verge of accomplishing toilet training but who are either fearful around use of the potty or reluctant to 'give up' their young behavior. Accomplishing toilet training brings with it some ambivalence - while it is a sign of growth and development, which is inviting to most children, it is also a sign of giving up some of the dependence that is inherent in being a small child. The latter is not so easy for some children. What does your son say about the situation? Does he indicate in any way that he is interested in accomplishing this task? What feedback do you receive from him?
Member Comments (3)
by GrantsMom, Oct 22, 2005 12:00AM
in the same boat with my soon to be four year old. is the best way to deal with this is to just be loving and understanding of their unreadiness and have faith that they'll do it when they're ready or should we put some limitations on them in this area and not accept pooping in their pants, just like we wouldn't accept other bad behaviors.
by shawn4, Nov 25, 2005 12:00AM
I have a four year old son that is not interested in pooping on the potty. I am not sure what to do.
by iamsympatico, Sep 07, 2008 02:01PM
A related discussion, Toilet Training was started.
