I work with children who suffer from a wide range of mental health issues. If you research the topic a bit I think you might find that lithium is not effective in children, you should seek alternate medications. Your proposal makes sense and has proven effective with kids like the ones I work with.
Dear Karen,
I really can't offer you guidance about the proposal to wean your son from his medications and start afresh. There are certainly times when such an option is sensible. It is not unusual, in fact it is pretty typical, for patients who have been diagnosed with Bipolar D/O to be on several medications.
However, relative to discharge planning, it sounds like you earlier received the opinion that your son might require residential treatment. Such twenty-four-hour-a-day care is, of course, a major intervention, and out-of-family care of any sort should only be entertained if all other options have been exhausted.
Depending on your location, public agencies sometimes collaborate to provide intensive services (including out-of-home care) to children who are being discharged from hospital-level care. Have you consulted with your state agencies that oversee the care and treatment of children? You might ask about this with hospital personnel. What you'll want to learn is the mechanism for referring children for residential placement.