Can my partner have chlamydia and i dont after 3 months no sex?

Dear experts,

My partner got tested and has chlamydia but i got tested negative.

we have been together sexually without condoms for 4 months on a daily basis,
We have been in a long distance relationship since,
she got tested positive 1 month after being apart,
i got tested negative 3 months after being apart,

we both had other partners before and are not 100% if we were both clean.

Questions:
What are the chances of getting chlamydia from your partner after 1 night stand (vaginal intercourse, oral)?
What if it is your partner (lets say 50 times)?
Can chlamydia go away by itself? ( only medication i had in the last 6 months were 15 vitamine c pills)
Is this PROOF that she cheated on me between the time we got separated and the moment she got the test done?

Please reply because this is very important to me and our relationship.

[2terrified]

Bottom line...with the amount of unprotected sex you had with her, there is no way you would not have it if she did. That is a fact you cannot change. So one of you had a false result. If she was already treated, there is no sense in her testing again so the logical thing is for you to test again to make sure you do not have it. I cannot speculate on every "what if" there is. I look at the facts and come to the best logical conclusions i can based on what you have said.

[2terrified]

No, it is not proof she cheated on you.  For various reason, there can be false results.  She could have had a false positive, and you could have had a false negative. It is possible she already had it and you did not get it from the one time sexual encounter. About 75% of women can have chlamydia and not get symptoms. Some doctors say chlamydia can clear up on its own but it is not my belief.

[stdvictim731]

Thank you for your reply,

By False positive or false negative, you mean that the laboratory is incompetent and did not do his job well?

We both got checked at highly rated hospitals, she got treatment as well as for other 4 STD's (including HPV-16) and now, after testing again, its clean (blood test).

After 1 encounter ok, i might not have contracted the disease,  but after 50? i SHOULD have it?

If both test were correct, she had it and i do not have it, is that proof?

Should i get tested again? Should i do a blood test instead of the urine test i took?

Thank you for your patience replying.

[2terrified]

There are a lot of "if's" to this situation.  You got tested at 3 months. Testing for chlamydia is conclusive at 7 days after exposure. To be extra sure since she was positive, you should test again.  Then if you are negative again, she had a false result.

Blood testing is not reliable for chlamydia.  Urine or swab is best for suspected current infections that need treating.

The reasons for false results vary.  Sometimes it is mishandling of specimens in the labs.  Sometimes it can be because of the person who took the sample.  Other infections can sometimes alter the results as well as medications.  So, do not assume lab techs are incompetent.  There are quite a few reasons for false results that are not human error.

[stdvictim731]

Ey, thanks again for the explanation.

She got tested after treatment, now she is clean. You are saying she might not have had anything to begin with?
U mean i should test again or her? no point in testing her now, the doctor said she was sure, i asked.

Again, assuming for now we she DID have chlamydia, and i do NOT have it. Are there any other if's?

[2terrified]

Bottom line...with the amount of unprotected sex you had with her, there is no way you would not have it if she did. That is a fact you cannot change. So one of you had a false result. If she was already treated, there is no sense in her testing again so the logical thing is for you to test again to make sure you do not have it. I cannot speculate on every "what if" there is. I look at the facts and come to the best logical conclusions i can based on what you have said.

[stdvictim731]

Thanks for everything, it was hard to find clear concise answers on the web but now i know.