Confused of baby's father

[Sarahduel]

So I have dating my bonfriebd now for 5 years. I am due on July 16. In October me and my boyfriend were fighting a lot and took a break and I saw someone else from oct 4-oct 20.. Only had sex 3 times... We didn't use protection but he did not ejaculate. I metup with my boyfriend oct 23 which is my eligid connection date and we had sex and he ejaculated in me.. I took a plan b pill but it must've not worked.. Is the baby's father my boyfriend?

[kendallleblanc]

Those dates are really close. If u had sex with someone without protection, he still could have released pre *** inside of u. If u were pregnant already before u took the plan b, it becomes ineffective.  So really you just need a dna test.

[greygina]

Im due july 17 and got pregnant october 14...

[kendallleblanc]

IMO I think it's the guy u hooked up with, not your boyfriends.

[greygina]

I agree with kendallleblanc

[ashley_july123]

My due date is July 13th.. I conceived the week of the 24th of Oct. So it could be either one!

[aleyla96]

I'm due July 22 and I conceived October 25 so I think it's the guy you hooked up with....

[Sarahduel]

This is stupid but How do U know exactly when u got pregnant? I Didn't sleep with the other guy until oct 17 if I got pregnant before then it would be my boyfriends right? Bc me and the other dude we're just txting until we had sex oct 17..Ugh I'm so scared

[TamiDawn]

Find out how many weeks you are and backtrack.

[kendallleblanc]

If u know when u ovulate. ..

[Sarahduel]

This is stupid but How do U know exactly when u got pregnant? I Didn't sleep with the other guy until oct 17 if I got pregnant before then it would be my boyfriends right? Bc me and the other dude we're just txting until we had sex oct 17..Ugh I'm so scared I just did it on a conception calculator nd it said oct 23 nd I did get an unusual period got it sept 19 then on oct 1 ended oct 4th then started again on oct 9 nd baby measures from oct 9

[tauruan92]

You can get and app or ask the doctor a period app even will tell you your conception date which is usually two weeks after the initial sex the baby is for the guy you hooked up with you need a test too be sure so you have too tell them both

[Sarahduel]

Yea I told the other guy not my boyfriend I want to be sure first.. Is there any way to get a paternity test done before baby is born

[Sarahduel]

I am 14 weeks and 6 days

[Tavi12]

Be a woman and tell your boyfriend then get a paternity test after you have the baby if you didn't want the other guy to possibly be your babies daddy then you should have used protection

[kendallleblanc]

I'm pretty sure there is a test u can do while pregnant..

[tauruan92]

Yes you can they test your blood vrs theirs some kind of way but they will wait a little later in pregnancy probably when you are 6 months I'm not judging but you should have used protection because a baby is not the worse thing that can happen he could have had a disease you would have had too live with

[Gorda72915]

I wouldn't suggest you taking a paternity test while pregnant, if you are pregnant and take the paternity test it can make damage to the baby .

[Sarahduel]

Yes I am aware of my mistake if I wanted to be judged about it I wouldn't have posted it.. I need suggestions.. Answers.. Help.. Anyway it's hard to figure my conception date bc my periods from sept to oct were odd. I got a period sept 19 again on oct 2 lasting 3 days and again on oct 9..

[ftmapril15_]

So when is the last time you had intercourse in between those periods of time? Maybe t wasnt your bleeding but implantation bleeding, also since when you are pregnant you get more sensitive down their while pregnancy that can cause you to bleed. So how regular are your periods and when do you usually get them?

[Sarahduel]

Between those weird periods in sept and oct I kno I was with my current boyfriend. I didn't see the other guy until oct 19 . I usually get them towards the end of the month or beggining but I got a period end of sept nd begging of oct I told doc they didn't Wana listen they're going by ultrasound nd baby's measurments .. But idk thru even said at first it could've been implantation bleeding im like having a meltdown rn nd I kno it's not good for baby

[Sarahduel]

Sometimes my periods are off by days

[momtoscarlett]

You got pregnant on October 9th says the calendar I looked uo

[momtoscarlett]

So it's probably your boyfriends if you didn't have sex with him until the 17th

[ftmapril15_]

Okay well id say its your boyfriends baby, bc it can take up to 2 weeks to conceive. Id relax , take a shower or sum you shld be fine when is your due date?