whose the papi

[troubledwoman]

I'm 7 weeks pregnant I cheated on my boyfriend to get back at him on the 3rd of march at 1am and then I had sex with my boy friend the same day but later about 3 or 4pm and every day after that i had sex with my baby father the other guy was just once I wish I didn't do it cause now I'm confused the guy I cheated with sperm isn't pure he smokes weed every day and drinks alcohol all the time and I've never heard of him having kids and he has tried many times but never succeed verses my boyfriend who has pure sperm he doesn't smoke weed just cigarettes and he don't drink plus we have kids together please tell me which one has a greater chance to be my baby daddy the one with sence or the one without please help me

[AnnieBrooke]

If the choice is someone on March 3 only, versus someone every other possible time, and you're 7 weeks pregnant (how do you know this, by the way, did a doctor tell you from an ultrasound?) the March 3 guy would be pretty long ago to get you pregnant.  You'd be more like 11 weeks along or something.

Again, how did you come up with the gestational age of 7 weeks?  A lot hinges on how accurate it is.

[troubledwoman]

Well I was told that drinks ng and weed smoke kills sperm by like a lot but that's not where I was getting at I'm upset at myself for making a mistake yeah it was a condom involved but it broke and on top of that who want a baby father who has nothing going for them selves but it's my fault I can't be mad at any one but myself and thank u I know they're blessings thats why I'm not getting an abortion

[shesshy]

First congrats on the baby,regardless of who the biological dad is... every baby is a blessing that not everyone is able to have. That just shows how special each one is. I'm pretty sure that weed and drinking doesn't kill enough sperm cells to keep someone from getting pregnant. I honestly hope it works out in favor of what's best for the child. Be strong. You will be a great mom to this sweet baby.    

                                         Shesshy