How to tell if she is lying about pregnancy

[buddyluv]

Hi, this feels kind-of like a childish question, but its eating me up so i would love your help in this matter please. I just told my GF i dont want anything to do w/her anymore because i found out she has lied ALOT to me and others. Well now she is claiming pregnancy. Now, i know 1st reaction is "shes lying you idoit!"   But just the fact of knowing it COULD be true is killing me. I used protection, she "said" she was on the pill. She disposed of the condom at the time "month ago" but is just now telling me it broke.  She found out at the doc. for some sort of heart tests and it came back in the blood work that there was faint but obvious preg. hormimones present. She claims that med. abor. is not an apotion because of her recent "heart problem". Surgical may not be an option either BC of her heart. All of this information has come straight from her.
       Im trying to find holes in her story to hopefully discover that she def. is lying to me again. Thats why im seeking your help because of my lack of medical knowledge.

She has claimed abuse(twice), rape(2 years ago), abortion(1 yr ago), and so on and so on. Most recently abuse between her and co-worker. She claimed broken wrist and a few scratches. I even saw her wrist and it looked terrible. Numourous post visits from him scaring her and mess. Restraining order,etc.All this took place over a 2-3 week time period. Well i recently found out that it is all untrue.   So maybe this should be in the mental forum.   Thank you for any input   -Frank

[beckyy28]

Sorry in advance but it's "girls" like her that make women look bad.. she sounds like a nut job.. sadly I've heard of a lot of "girls" lying about being pregnant just to manipulate a guy.. good luck and I highly doubt she's telling the truth..  and if she is, sounds like you might be in for quite the ride with that one.. JK lol but seriously I'd take her to the Dr yourself just to make sure!!

[Mommashelley1]

WHOA I just realized this post is from 4 years ago ...... I wonder if he took my advice lol

[Mommashelley1]

RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!! LOL

[penswriter]

condoms can and do break. they are not a 100% ef'fective birth control. my husband and i have had our fair share of condoms break on us...which is why i am also on b/c. 2 forms are better than 1 or not doing it at all.
i don't know where you go your information sammi but it is VERY wrong and telling people the wrong information when you apparently don't know, can be very bad. it can cause problems for couples and it can cause pregnancies if a person relies on condoms alone. so please read up on things before you make posts.

[Sammi_XD]

condoms can NOT break no matter what, what she is saying is a lie.

[rsiscrazy]

There should be more serious consequences for girls who pull this kind of stuff...  I just experienced a similar situation and it leaves you emotionally, psychologically and physically drained.  Which I'm sure is the hope of the deranged women who do this sort of sick and disturbing thing. I found this on the web...  at least there is a law about it...  

"Lawyer has advised that (girl's name)'s actions clearly amount to "Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress" as a civil issue and "Criminal Harassment" as a police matter."

Mentally unstable or just simply angry women should not be allowed to get away with this kind of stuff...  it's sick!