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Need Closure....!

Hi I'm 25 & just found out on May 4th I was 3wks (2wk gestational age) pregnant.. I'm currently 13 weeks now.. My last lmp was March 28th but I had unprotected sex with my close guy friend April 2nd for the last time, we still decided to remain friends.. our fling lasted a whole 2months.. but our last sexual contact was the second of April.. After we said our goodbyes I made amends with my ex boyfriend which is Guy#2 & we got together a wk after Easter (April 5th - present) ...Well to make the long story short Im wondering &confused on when did i get preg with my baby & whos the dad.. Only trying to put these pieces together... thanks soooo MUCH !
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Hi Ms Anne I know it's been awhile just wanted to inform u that Im 5months now & recently did my 2nd ultrasound & it is a boy my GA is now 20weeks 2days dated on 8/17/2015 .. remember my dating scan was 9wk4days on 6/3/15.. so is it still adding up to the second guy.??
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134578 tn?1693250592
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It does mostly seem to point to the second guy.  Go through the pregnancy with that assumption.  But because the number of days between is not that large, you do still need the DNA test.  
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OK Ms Annie around how positive could it get to be for the baby to be guy #2... I know it's not 100 without a DNA test but I just want a lil closure while I'm preg because I'm so stress about it.. & alone
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You're right though...
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Thats why it's good to have accurate facts... so I won't get confused.. I'm going with going with guy #2 as well.. hopefully it's correct! ;) I pray Lol
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Oh, and they also say they got pregnant right after their periods because they had sex then.  But given that sperm can live and stay viable in their body 5 or so days after sex, they could have had a period on the 1st, have sex on the 5th, and not get pregnant until the 10th, and still have the baby be from the sex right after their period on the 5th.  That is one of the reasons I needed to know what the doctor or tech said; I needed accuracy for trying to figure out your time windows.  The tech saw and measured your actual embryo.
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