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Stressed and SOOO CONFUSED :/

Basically... I'm 6 months pregnant now. I found out I was 4weeks pregnant April 2nd of 2014. During around the time I had gotten pregnant I was having sex with 2 guys. One of the guys whom I was having sex with DIDN'T EJACULATE IN ME, BUT THE OTHER GUY DID. basically I'm soooo confused because the first day of my last period was March 4... I had sex with the same guy who didn't ejaculate in me before March 4th (first day of my last period) and I still got my period March 4th! Around March 16th March 22nd I had sex with both guys and ended up getting pregnant! I repeat, one of the guys when I had sex with them around this time actually CAME IN ME, WHILE THE OTHER NEVER DID. After all this, the guy who came in me around that time we're in a relationship now.... the ultrasound pics look exactly like him! But my question is.... what are the ODDS of getting pregnant by a guy who didn't ejaculate in me over a guy who did around the same time??? HELP PLEASE!
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Did you have any early ultrasounds, such as in June, or July?
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it could be either.   you can still get pregnant with the pull out method.  it isn't exactly effective.
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134578 tn?1693250592
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April 2 on a Wednesday, HOW did you find out that you were 4 weeks?  From the absence of your period?  Or did you have an ultrasound?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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If a guy has an erection within a few hours of having ejaculated and without having peed a few times, there is a possibility that sperm from the earlier ejaculation will still be alive in his urethra and will come out in the pre-ejaculatory fluid that seeps out from the erection.  Despite not ejaculating, some errant sperm could come out of the urethra in the pre-ejaculate.  (I am assuming you are saying all sex with either guy was unprotected.)  It's almost certainly too late for Mr. NoCome to remember if he had masturbated before having sex with you around the 16th and the 22nd of March.  (Are you saying one guy was on the 16th and the other was on the 22nd, or are you saying that between those dates you had sex with both guys?)

How did you find out that you were exactly 4 weeks pregnant on April 2?  That is an unusually early time in pregnancy to be so exact, since most ultrasounds are not able to see anything besides a moderate thickening of the uterine lining at 4 weeks.
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