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my bf and i had sex on june 29th and im 9 weeks pregnant as of today. my last period was june 8th me and my friend messed around on june 22 or 23d but did not have sex at all and i found out i was 7 weeks and 1 day on august 11th

So before i got back with my current boyfriend i was seeing this other guy and we were fooling around and he fingered me and i gave him a ******** but i dont know if he had any pre *** on his penis and i think i might have accidentally touched my vagina but only for a second he says he didnt have any but im not sure.

Then i currently got back with my boyfriend and we had sex and he came inside me fully! my current boyfriend and i had sex on june 29 and july 5 and i am 9 weeks pregnant today. wouldnt it be my current boyfriends?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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I think you need to get a new ultrasound that you can totally rely on.  If you did get pregnant on July 6, you would have needed to ovulate very late in your cycle.  People don't usually ovulate on July 6 if their period is due July 8.  But Depo can make things irregular.  Your problem would be that your periods had settled down and begun to look regular.

When you get your ultrasound, ask them for your GA (how many weeks pregnant you are, which remember the counted from the assumed first day of your last period according to your baby's size) and for your EDD (your estimated due date).  From the estimated due date counting backward, it would be 266 days to the presumed ovulation date.

Good luck!
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4715985 tn?1371582997
DNA test will give you all the answer you want.
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134578 tn?1693250592
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You would have conceived around July 6.  Sounds like your boyfriend is the dad.  When you were messing around on June 22 or 23, were you having a period, or expecting it at any time?
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my next period would of been on July 8th. So my boyfriend is the dad? So i did conceive in july?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Hi, just so I know for sure how to answer, please tell me how you got this info in your story:  "i found out i was 7 weeks and 1 day on august 11th."  Did you have an ultrasound on August 11, and the tech told you were 7 weeks 1 day pregnant?
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yes the tech told me i was 7 weeks and 1 day on aug 11
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Did the tech give you an estimated due date at that time?  

I'm getting a kind of inconsistent count with the reported first day of your last period being June 8.  If you count back 7 weeks 1 day from August 11, that date is June 22, and should be the first day of your last period, and it's not.  (The medical way of counting pregnancy is to start it on the first day of bleeding, of your last period.)  Did you and the tech talk specifically about when conception was, or did she just say you're 7 weeks 1 day along or 7 weeks 1 day pregnant?
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She just said i was 7 weeks and 1 day pregnant. My period was from June 8th until June 13 or 14th.
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Like when I got my ultrasound done she said it was measuring 7 weeks 1 day by crown rump length. Doesnt that mean im 7 weeks?
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So is it my boyfriends? cuz honestly the other scenario I read the chances are low like I don't even know if there was any precum and if there was i think i wiped my hand off before i touched myself and if i didnt it couldnt of been alot because there was alot of spit on my hand. Where my boyfriend came 2 times fully in me. Idk a bunch of people I have talked too said I conceived in the beginning of july.
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She just said i was 7 weeks and 1 day pregnant. My period was from June 8th until June 13 or 14th.

Like when I got my ultrasound done she said it was measuring 7 weeks 1 day by crown rump length. Doesnt that mean im 7 weeks?

So is it my boyfriends? cuz honestly the other scenario I read the chances are low like I don't even know if there was any precum and if there was i think i wiped my hand off before i touched myself and if i didnt it couldnt of been alot because there was alot of spit on my hand. Where my boyfriend came 2 times fully in me. Idk a bunch of people I have talked too said I conceived in July.

The tech said my due date was somewhere in march.
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134578 tn?1693250592
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And did she give you an estimated due date on August 11?
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no i went to the hospital on aug 11 and she told me i was 7 weeks
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oh sorry yeah i read that wrong lol yeah she did
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yeah she did. So is my boyfriend the dad or what ?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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OK, if she told you an estimated due date, what was that date?  I'm trying to figure out the discrepancies here and it would greatly help if you would tell me the estimated due date she gave you.
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oh my bad she said somewhere between March 15 to the 30th she wasnt a very good tech she told me i would get an accurate date when i went to my first ultrasound
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Oh, it wasn't an ultrasound?
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no it was but she said she couldnt tell an accurate due date because i was still really early. but shes like im assuming around march 15 through the 30th
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Oh, rats, this posted before I was done.  Let me make that clearer:

If your due date was:  March 15, 2014 (40 weeks)
     Assumed first day of last menstrual period:  June 8, 2013
     Probable date of ovulation:  June 22, 2013
     Possible dates of conception:  June 18 to June 26, 2013

If your due date was:  March 30, 2014 (40 weeks)
     Assumed first day of last menstrual period:  June 23, 2013
     Probable date of ovulation:  July 7, 2013
     Possible dates of conception:  July 3 to July 11, 2013
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Essentially, you need a clearer answer from your next ultrasound, and I would not wait any longer to get it.  What the above dates done by the conception calculator are saying now is that if you are due March 15, you were likely to have conceived in the time range from June 18 through 26, and if you are due March 30, you were likely to have conceived July 3 through 11.  Since one time bracket is the one you want and the other is not, you really should get an ultrasound right away.
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is it possible i could of ovulated late? like past june 26th? cuz i really seriously doubt it was the other scenario
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i wasnt 9 weeks i was 7 weeks when i got the ultrasound. and idk im 9 weeks as of right now like yesterday. like when i do the math and  count back from this week it brings me to the beginning of july
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wait if it was june 22 until the 26th how would i be 9 weeks pregnant? that doesnt add up. today is August 26 and i was 9 weeks as of yesterday. if you count back 9 weeks from today its the beginning of july ?? i would be 10 weeks if that was the case
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