My 30 year old son who has lived away from home for 3-6 month periods during his life and has been living with his dad and myself for the past three years straight has suffered lifelong depression especially during winter periods. He is unemployed (never had a long term job), unsuccessful at over a half dozen business ventures all subsidized by myself and my husband, verbally abusive, always moody, physically imposing(has worked out faithfully for 15 yrs),and in my opinion is addicted to Adderall (135 30mg tabs per month).In the past 10+ years he has been prescribed Zoloft, Wellbutrin and Paxil and does not like the 'feeling' on these meds along with some weight gain and excessive headaches with Wellbutrin and excessive sweating with Paxil so has sworn off psychotropic type meds as useless. My son decided about 8 years ago that he would like to take stimulants and studied a booklet on ADHD and 'exhibited' all the symptoms in order to obtain his first Rx. He functioned somewhat on Ritalin but still went through periods of excessive spending (all via mom/dad credit cards). He switched to Adderall about 3 years ago first at 15 mg per day then up to current level. In the meanwhile 2 psychiatrists dropped him as a patient due to his constant requests to increase dosage and abusive behavior when they refused to do so. He buys 100's of silly little items (mostly thru ebay),cleans and catalogs them, and stores them. He 'powers through' on adderall by staying up sometimes 3 days straight excessively cleaning, polishing and unable to focus on one task for a long period of time. He then stays in bed for 1 to 2 days and the cycle starts over. He has threatened suicide hundreds of times, threatened to kill others to prove a point that no one can tell him what to do. My husband and myself are afraid of him. My husband is trying to set up a meeting with his psychiatrist to explain our situation as we do not think our son complains of any depression problems to this doctor but just shows up to get his Rx refill. We are at our wits end. We love our son very much and it hurts us to see him feeling so much pain and never experiencing much happiness. A psychologist recently suggested in-patient detox from the emphetamines but my husband and I do not believe our son would ever agree to voluntarilly decrease/end his abuse of Adderall. As a young child my son was prone to terrible temper tantrums and fought any discipline with every fabric of his being. He hung with the jocks in high school and abused alcohol on weekends. Alcohol seemed to take the 'edge' off his negative behavior. He always has to be the center of attention and is excessively jealous of his younger brother. Both his brothers are successful professionals. He has a little dog whom he adores. He has had a few long term female relationships with very needy women (4 years and 2 years long). Any suggestions,ideas? He is currently blaming myself and my recovered alcoholic husband for all.