Ive been married for a 9 months. Im a very positive , cheerful , sexual person.
Im having problems at this moment with my husband, He states im very insecure, jealous person, In a way he is right,
Im pretty , thin and sexy, but there is something that bothers me, Maybe i dont express it correctly to him. I mean we both like sex, but because of health issues we are not having as much sex we would want to. I know he loves me, and he cares, at the same time he has a bad temper , that is when problems start, I resent not having sex and then when we see tv. or walk together it bothers me when he looks at woman, not in a lust manner, because of lack of sex i get jealous ( thats what he says)
then he gets mad and is insultating , mean and rude. He tells me to grow up and deal with it,
it shouldnt bother me even if we were in a nude beach, i should trust him. in a way i do at the same time telling me things that put me down doesnt help. when i aproach him sexually he states i put him in the spot, that turns him off, if i playfully say i want to have sex, he thinks im demanding. which if i say it its not meant this way.
i pass by his side showing my breast or tease him, he doesnt acknowlegdes it, in the morinings before i leave to work i wake him up so he can see me before i go to work and see how pretty i look.
maybe im not expressing myself correctly , this is causing a mayor problem in our marriage.
am i handling this incorrectly??
i sometimes touch him a lot and im affetionate with him. this is the way i am.