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[Jaide11]

Hi about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend and i dont know what to do. Sine we broke up all he has done is ignore me and make me feel like **** and feel depressed, but i still feel like i need him in my life and i cant get over him!! What do i do?!?

[Jaide11]

Hey thanks we broke up cause he didnt feel the same way and we went out for a month, broke up for a month and then went out for another 2

Thanks

[nursegirl6572]

Hello hon, how old are you for starters?

Unfortunately, some people don't have the ability to remain "friends" following a break up.  In a perfect world, we would all stay friends with our exes, but in the real world, it just isn't possible.

How long were you dating and why did you break up with him?  My honest advice to you would be to try to find a way to move on.  You can't hold it against him for not wanting to remain friendly with you following the break up...for some people it is too painful and keeps them from grieving for the relationship and moving on.  It may be what HE needs to do and you really need to respect that, even though it may be hard for you.  My advice to you is to leave him be and try to busy yourself with other activities, your friends, school work, etc.

Good luck!