hi there! how are you feeling today? nobody had asked you that?
if you do feel down and not being able to be yourself then maybe there is something wrong, having to repress your feeling because of other peoples reactions is not right, and it maybe having some implication in causing you to feel so down and upset about it.
for the 20% of your friends having an issue with you being bisexual, you must ask yourslef are they true friends? true friend would except you in anyway shape or form. as for not telling your parents, they will love you no matter what, it maybe hard for them at first, but if they see your happy surely it wont matter to them? maybe it would though i know some parents, esp. fathers can be set in thier ways, but if its going to make you be able to be who you are then id tell them, its your life, your choice, and youshouldnt spend you life trying to impress others just to make them happy, what about making you happy? thats the imprtant thing.
my parents never understood me, but i have made my own family now, and my grandparents still care about me very much and are always there, if your dont get on with your parents after you break the news, you'll be surprised who maybe there for you.
obv. none of this is a medical opinion, just mine, you may find it totally wrong. but if your not able to be yourself, who are you going to be?
i hope you sort things out, im always here to chat.
Emma
Hi
I'm sure I responded to your question but it looks like it was deleted.
How would NHS know you were bi? Why would it matter if you were bi?
Yes, I do think there is homophobia in the health care system as well as racism, sexism and all the other "isms". However, I think the advice and comments made by Hen and xan are good. You might have to shop around for a therapist but it'll be worth it.
lonewolf
I just wanted to reconfirm Hensley's post. He gave you some excellent advice.
It would help you tremendously if you were able to see a therapist to discuss this. You have a lot of issues on your plate, and it's quite natural to feel overwhelmed in your situation.
Taking a pill will not fix the situation, but talking about it in an environment that is safe will help give you the strength to deal with it more effectively.
And, I'm so sorry to read about your problems, too...
Good luck...
You must understand that Depressive dissorder is a disease, not a situation.
There is a huge difference between suffering from a clinical depression and being down because you have had some recient finacial and relationship issues.
When you contacted mental health regarding your need to see a Psychiatrist, did they make sure to ask you alot of questions concerning your symptoms?
There is a list of about 12 specific symptoms that can indicate a serious mental depression. Are you suffering from these symptoms?
It really sounds like a lot of this problem your having is situational. If it is situational than most likly just seeing a Therapist on a regular basis should help a lot.
As for taking medication.... Unless your symptoms of depression are to a point where you simply can not function, then I would suggest first trying therapy to talk thru some of the life issues your having now.