I am in therapy and in group, but I still don't open up much. I hide myself so much that I'm not always sure of how I am. My therapist in group and the group member who i have become friends with both called me on it this week. She said 'I know you and I talk out side of here, but its hard to get you to talk about your stuff, and I still think you hide most of it' And the therapist said 'you noticed that too?'. I unsuccessfully muted a smile and let out a small laugh, it was nice to see someone had finally noticed it. My boyfriend and my mom seem completely oblivious, and I have more intentionally hid it from them because I don't know how to go about it anyways and I dont want to cause them to stress out. But I still let out little signals hoping that they will take the hint and ask so I can be pushed into it.
I hide a little bit differently from everyone, my home therapist doesn't know I have cut 3 times, my group only knows about the first time I cut, my mom has no idea, but my boyfriend knows all of it. I am drowning in math, my mom and boyfriend sort of know, my therapist knows, and i dont know what my group knows. I lost my job, my parents and boyfriend know, group doesnt know, and therapist thinks I quit. I am severely depressed and have symptoms like sobbing or not doing anything all day every few days, and I'm sad alot and its very hard to focus; group sort of, boyfriend isn't catching on, mom has no clue, therapist sort of. And funny enough my room mate doesn't know anything at all- except that I quit my job.
I guess I came to this forum so that I could tell someone lol