Hi there,
Your best friend isn't you. Nor are you responsible in any way for what is always a highly personal decision. Often such decisions are made when very upset, depressed and maybe affected by drink or drugs as well.
People do such things when they are at their worst and would not do it if they were under treatment or inn a better environment.
It is something we all think about but rarely do we act.
What you need to know is that it is not your life that was taken and it won't be. You are obsessing about it as is natural but the way to deal with it is to take some therapy, talk it out with a professional so you understand it was so very sad but it's happened and your friend would not have wanted you to feel as bad as you do.
hi mike,im so very sorry for ur loss,ur so young and shouldnt have to go through such heartache. always try to remember the good times and happy times u spent with your friend when u have such thoughts.its ok to smile.its ok to try to move on an rebuild your life. time is a great healer because your good memmories will overcome the bad. if you need to talk then talk.family,friends or proffessionals.they are all ther for you. take each day as it comes and i wish you love,luck and happiness.keep strong,with the best of wishes,lisa
You need to speak with a counsellor and I would recommend you speak with a psychiatrist. It sounds, I'm just guess you are having OCD thoughts, pretty common after a tragic event. See your family doctor and get a referral. OCD thoughts don't go away on their own.