hi. my partner suffer from depression maybe 15 years on and off already. we met two years ago and with my help he gave up drinking, started medication and therapy, first with AA, than professional counselling, is going through very difficult divorce, lost his job - all in one.he can't cope with the easiest things, everything in his head is getting enormous.ups and downs 24 hours a day, coping with his moods, frustration, giving up nearly every day; and I am the one who drag him through this ocean of misery, who is convincing him life is worth something, but I feel like I failed somewhere on a way. I am exhausted, drained, getting ill from working long extra hours to keep our house going, bills, rent, counselling, solicitor to pay every month..now he got the job finally, but can't manage it, another crisis, suicidal thoughts, self harm thoughts and me being treated like I don't mean anything. somethimes I need a help, support, but where from? it is nothing for me..