NEED HELP BADLY

[LonelyPrincess555]

I don't know why I'm posting it here but I need someone to talk to. I come from a family where no one loves me or cares for me instead they all abuse me verbally all the time as well as physically at times.I have no friends and I'm not allowed to go out either. I have lost interest in life & everything all I do is sleep.I'm a teenager but with the way my life is going I don't think I have a future. Everything is so blur my future my career everything is just blur. I just want to die that's all I want to do. I don't have anyone I could even open up to so I feel better. I cry every night !! Please help me & tell me what to do. I have tried being happy but I can't be :(

[rosey3216]

I have felt the same way, although I never dealt with physical abuse :( although emotional abuse can hurt badly too. How old are you?? .. I wish I could help you out of this situation but I can't. What I can and will do is let you know that I'm here if you need to just rant to somebody. You can message me anytime and ill get back to you asap. I'm going through more than ever right now and need a friend as well. However I think you need to tell someone about the abuse. Maybe a school counselor or someone that you trust. There is no excuse for abuse.

[sylviabrown2012]

Plse get help immediately no one should ever abuse there own daughter or anyone! Get out as quick as possible, report to police too. Plse promise me that you get out even from the window when they are sleeping! Take care I love you too! How old are you and where you from?

[mandy876]

no one has a right to beat you up.  there is a law against that.  you sound lonely like me.  i feel no one is here for  me.  but no one has ever beat me maybe a little mental abuse but words cant hurt as bad as a hand.  im sure god is listening to you.  do you go to church.  there is a lot of youth programs that you can meet some great friends.  if you are not allowed to go.  you need to tell someone.  a teacher a doctor a policeman. they all will help you get in a better situation.  you will find on here you will have a lot of wonderful friends.  they saved me and made me a better person.  mandy876

[LonelyPrincess555]

Thanksss xxx I wish it was that easy :(

[nursegirl6572]

Why can't you?  

Have you considered reporting the abuse?  Until you break that cycle of abuse and want more for yourself hon, nothing will change!

Praying for you....

YOU are in charge of your life...don't wait for God to give you a friend...go out and make some!  Sometimes, people are their own worst enemy, keeping themselves stuck in bad situations.  It won't be easy, but it will be worth it.  Certainly anything is better thabn someone hurting you.

Please keep in touch!

[LonelyPrincess555]

Thank you soo much !! For all the support.

Well when I abuse I mean by beating me up ...

I wish I could get some professional help but I really can't .. :( I guess just in need of a true friend :)
Hope some day god gifts me 1

[jessika221]

As others said, this situation will not last for ever if and just if you try to help yourself. First of all you need to learn to love yourself and work as hard as you can to ignore their words about you. in this situation, you need to improve your self-confidence and think of ways to make yourself emotionally and financially stronger. For example, you need to focus on your studies and education and imagine a time when you get out of there to continue your studies in a major you love and can succeed. Take the responsibility of your life and be strong baby, I assure you that you can succeed.

By the way, if you cannot love them, try not to hate them either, just think of ways to have a smoother relationship, and if you see that it doesn't work just ignore them.
good luck

[nursegirl6572]

I agree completely with Kirstie.  As hard as it is to imagine, things won't always be like this.  You definitely need to seek out some kind of professional help.  Your self esteem is very low, after all you've been through, so it's very difficult for you to see that there is hope, and that you're worthy of being happy, safe and content.

PLEASE get yourself some help. We're here for you.  You're among people who have suffered with depression for a long time.  People here understand what it's like to be in that deep dark black hole.  It IS possible to climb out though, with the right help...and with some work.  It's a battle well worth fighting sweetheart.

Please come back and update us.

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

I am SO sorry that your life is going poorly right now.  There are laws against physical abuse in your country, and though it may be difficult to do, it is probably in your best interest to report the abuse to the proper authorities.

While I can't fix the problems for you (and I really wish I could), keep in mind that it will not last forever - one day, your life will be your own.  You'll be an adult, and you can make decisions for yourself, including about which family members you want to bother being around.  Most of your life will be spent as an adult, so you have many years in front of you that will, hopefully, be much better for you.  But whatever help you can get now, you should definitely seek.

[Life360_Dave]

When you say abuse physically, what exactly do they do and who does it?