unhappy

[lonelygal22]

i have been clenching my teeth for a year now and my mouth and lips dry and gums ache, this is all day and every day, relax only when im asleep,  i cry every night and in my lunch hour i go out in my car and cry, i look in the mirror and scream at myself your an ugly *****, i punch my head from time to time, cant go on like this anymore, please help me

[russ939]

No way are you not good looking. You are beautiful and don't forget it. I am sure you have alot of young men to choose from.  How could you say such a thing? If I were 20 years younger and single and 2000 miles closer, I would definatly call on you.

And lonely girl I hope you call.

Russ

[russ939]

Hi,
I see that word unhappy and my heart skips a beat. You poor thing, I feel so bad for you. You sound like a sensitive girl and that alone is beautiful in my eyes. These things sometimes are in our own heads. I have no idea if your problem is weight related or physical but I can try to help you spiritually. You don't have to be a christian or a jew to see the spiritual you.. And that part is always beautiful. I don't want to preach, I know thats annoying for most but maybe just talking and having a laff is what you need most right now. Bring out your spirit and enjoy a few minutes a day just talking. If you wish I will be here.
Russ

[kelliebellie]

Thanks,  i am seeing a thereapist and tryng to work out these things....plus it doesnt help my dr took me right off my effexor no tapering and now im all messed up, which makes my feelings worse..

[Karl1000]

If you look around most of us are not movie star beautiful. And many of them are not so pretty on the inside. I bet you both have many people who love you for the beautiful people you are. If you don't believe it ask a few of them what they think of you.You might be surprised. You sound like you certainly should talk to a therapist and learn how to get past these distorted and untrue thoughts you are pounding yourselves with.

[marionstar]

Totallywild is right; see a doctor!  You both can probably be helped with medicaion...feeling this bad is not healthy, nor normal.  Get help!

[totallywild]

My advice is to see a doctor.  Have you any idea why you feel like this, is something going on in your life or has something happened in the past?

[kelliebellie]

Im sorry youre feeling that way....I am like that to..I cry all the time because I think im disgusting...I cant stand to look at myself in the mirror.....I cant give any advice but that youre not alone...