I'm new to this forum, and decided to join as a "last ditch" effort.~~~I will try to give you an overview of what is going on.~~~At this point in my life, I am totally at the end of my rope and not sure what I'm going to do next. But whatever it is, I'm not gonna like it.~~~~From the time I was born til I was 7, I was placed in some aweful foster homes (memories I still carry), when I was 7 I was "adopted" by a family that was relatively well to do. I thought Oh wow, a family that "wanted me" and I could have the things I never did before, ie, a doll, clothes, etc....What I learned as I grew up was that this "family" was not one of the "close/ lovey-dovey" ones. They tended to be one that RARELY showed emotions/feelings. And in a sad sense NEVER bonded with me, as that was'nt allowed.----Well, I grew up, and have had TOTAL SADNESS ever since. ( I have ALWAYS felt as though I was the poster child for the school of hard knocks)----I had my children early, am divorced from my ex (because of things he did illegally) and EVERYDAY of my life is filled with sadness, dis-connection, and anger.----No matter what I ever did, in my "families" eyes, I was never good enough.----PERIOD.~~~Well, over the years my "mother" has helped me out with bills, and what not. As I'm sure ANY parent would,--as I know I would/will and have with mine.--No questions asked.--Not because I had to--BUT BECAUSE I LOVE THEM!~~~Well, recently (actually on Christmas Eve) I lost my job because I did a very DUMB stupid thing, and that was take some money from an individual.--I was arrested and charged with Petty Larceny ( I don't go to court til February).--I know what I did was wrong, but I did it cuz I was DESPERATE. I only bring home about 275/week, I was struggling to pay bills, preenting things from getting dis-connected, and whatnot,---and recently was diagnosed with MS, and having a HARD TIME paying the co-pays for the meds.--NOW, I KNOW WHAT I DID WAS WRONG.--I KNOW THAT.-----And if I could go back in time and change it --I would.-----Well, what is "killing me" is since my mother has found out, she has been totally mean/heartless. (In ways, you can't imagine)---BEFORE and AFTER getting my Dx of MS, my mother has been very cold about it all. (the damage it has and will do to my body), I moreless was told I'm an EMBARRASSMENT to her because I have MS. Telling me, "Well ya better figure something out, cuz I AIN'T taken care of ya!) WHAT A THING FOR A MOTHER TO SAY TO THEIR 'CHILD'!!!--- I would like to say, I NEVER asked for MS, I NEVER asked for it to affect my legs, balance, mind, whatever.--- Well, after she found out about the "issue" at work, and since losing my job--she has REALLY BEEN COLD/ AND UNBELEIVABLYHEARTLESS.----She know I am on "suspension" until court, or I find another job, and that things at the house will go down and down fast.--Meaning because I was behind on bills before, cuz I barely made 275/week, that things are gonna start getting shut off here(heat, electric, cable, etc) not to mention I don't have money for groceries.---She has told me "in my hour/time of need", I'm tired of helping you out over and over, and I refuse to now.--She mentioned that she does not care whether the utilities get shut off, whether I have heat, electric, food, meds, whatever. And that she could careless if I end up on the streets. Again, I can't beleive a mother would say that to a "daughter".--She told me the day after Xmas, that she REGRETS ever adopting me, cuz I've been such a "failure" and "disgrace" to her!!~~~Yesterday, she came over (I live next door) and "tossed" what Xmas gifts I "maanged" to get her, at me, and told me "She did'nt want them, take them back to the store"!~~And AGAIN told me, she does'nt care if I'm in this trailer with no heat, electric, food,cable, whatever, That maybe I should just find a job and get out of here! That I've never amounted to anything and probably nevr will.-----She told me that again, basically I'm a loser/failure.----What bothers me the most, is her lack of love/care/ whatever.----Ok, yes, she's helped me out alot over the years with stuff (financially--as she was left with quite a bit after my father passed in 91),and whatever, has helped after our house burned to the ground 2 years ago, ( it was from an electric cord on the porch, and we (myself and my daughter) were not home.--She helped me get another trailer and put it next to her (as she has a SERIOUS issue of control, manipulation,(always has). I think/feel, she "helped" so that I would be next door, and she would look "Good" in the neighbors eyes,(as she ALWAYS) worries about that. She always tells me, What will the neighbors think?" You "look" like a failure to them!~~~I guess what's hurting me SO MUCH is how could a so called mother, tell a child, you wished you never adopted them,----tell them they are a failure/loser,---tell them they don't care if you have all of your utilities shut off and you have no food,---tell them your a disgrace----tell them they don't care if you have MS and it eats away at your body---that you can't get your meds,---that she does'nt care if I end up on the streets---just whatever, WHY? WHY OR HOW COULD A MOTHER SAY AND DO THAT TO A CHILD. Even if I'm 43, I'm still "her child", ya know what I'm saying?------I guess, NEEDLESS, to say, I'm very hurt, sad, and scared. And don't know what to do or feel. And that is why I joined this group, to see if I could talk to someone--so I don't feel so lonely, sad, hurt, just whatever. I have signed up for Counciling, but NEED something now,----I know for a fact, I DON'T want to lose my utilities, would like to be able to get food, meds, DON'T want to end up on the streets.--And DON'T understand how------why----she's being so cold to me.---It really makes you wonder if living is worth it.---Everyday, I pray that God takes me, instead of taking someone from a family that loves them..(But, hell, probably even in death,I'd be a failure/loser/disgrace to her).---So, if ANYONE out there can help me out --talk to me about this, or whatever---I'd be so very greatful.---Sorry, for the long note.