Husbandhas moved to the couch.

[lucy7749]

My husband has moved to the couch. He won't let me be affectionate anymore. He ha been very critical of me and made cimments about wanting to die. Is he depressed or trying to make me feel bad?

[lucy7749]

Thank you for your kind words. I feel you are right. Time to mov on.

[donny53]

if he is telling you that he is done with you...he is...and you will be sad...and you will get thru it....and you will go on to meet the man who will love you and respect you...and then you will be very happy.....so go on and do what you have to do....i am not an advocate for divorce....but where is the love?
but dont be sad.....donny

[lucy7749]

I have felt he has been cruel for a while now. Validation from others helps me realize I'm not over reacting.

[lucy7749]

He has always been sensitive. He trys to say he has no feelings for anyone, except our daughter. I'm not scared he will see. Lately I am starting to realize how hurtful his behavior is to me. He will make comments about attractive women on tv. If i say i don't appreciate the comments, he calls me insecure. He also tells our 2 year old she has a "gut" or a muffin top like mama. After some deep thinking, it feels like i should move on.

[thatquietgirl]

I would concur with cruel and abusive with this new information and second the questions.

[89NotAgain]

Either way, your husband is cruel & abusive. Has he always been like this? Rather, is his behavior simply getting worse? We could use more information about his and your behavior,  if you feel comfortable telling us more. Of course it could be that you had to hurry this for fear he will see it? Is that it?  

[lucy7749]

Well, since we had our daughter two years ago things have been hard. He just keeps telling me he is done with me. Also our hysical relationship has suffered. He is not hppy with my body shape after the baby. So i guess i could be more tan depression. I'm just feeling very sad.

[thatquietgirl]

Sounds depressed, but it's hard to know for sure since I don't know him or what your relationship is typically like.