need help

[mandy876]

my niece wants me to get on abilify to enhance my effexors does anyone know anything about this drug.  I know my niece is on it or has been on it.  I don't know what to do.  I am going to stick around and bug you guys somemore. besides it would be too lonesome without  you all.  mandy876

[mandy876]

hi I guess I answered all of your wonders in my last two replies.  I am a worry wart.  I always have been since I was a child.  I worry about the least things.  I think the bad will happen then when it turns out good I will feel real good.  iguess I will close for now your friend.  mandy876

[mandy876]

I am on lorazapam for my nerves and anxiety.  they are number1  don't help too much.  when my niece mentioned abilify.  before she got it out of her mouth he said NO.  do you have stage 3 kidney disease?  your friend mandy876

[mandy876]

we just talked about that she saud she would not go back in the room.  I told her I needed heer to be in the romm but just don't talk.  listen if he says something bad my mind might get mixed up and she can tell me what he said.  she said she would.  if she does not she has to leave the room.  thank you so much mandy876

[nursegirl6572]

I read and reread your reply a few times, you also didn't direct it to anyone specific, so I was scratching my head trying to figure it out.  I did have a feeling something had offended you, but wasn't sure what.  That's when I figured I'd just ask, to clarify.  I'm glad I did, so we could clear that up.

It's easy to have misunderstandings from time to time in a setting like this, because you can't see tone, facial expressions, etc.  I too am glad we got that cleared up.  :0)

My apologies for any confusion.

[jemma116]

Thank you for explaining that it was not a sarcastic comment, but supportive.

The confusion did arise because, like you say, your reply was not addressed to anyone specifically.  Had it been addressed to whom it was intended to help, then I would have understood quite clearly.

Glad that we have cleared that up.

Best wishes.

[nursegirl6572]

I'm glad I asked, I had a suspicion that's what you meant.

Actually, I wasn't being sarcastic in the least bit.  I copied your paragraph and said "perfect" because I thought I was a great suggestion.

It's difficult on the internet without being able to interpret a tone.  I would never ever post something like that, being a smart-alec.  I was sincerely agreeing with your advice.

And this comment of mine was actually directed to mandy, I didn't specify that in my post.  Maybe that's where the confusion arose......

"If she will adhere to that plan, it's perfect.  That way, if you get confused, or befuddled, you can ask her to chime in anytime, but not unless you need her to. ."

I'm sorry you interpreted it differently.  Hopefully, my posts speak for themselves and you can see that's just not my style.