Ive had the same problem and never had sex before...so maybe from masterbaiting?
The tip is all dark red now. Is that a bad thing?
Well sense you brought it up it's probably a rash due to friction rub. I won't go into details but i think you know what I mean.
Hello,
Without examination, confirmation of a diagnosis is tough but it can be contact dermatitis, rash due to friction rub, folliculitis, cysts or genital warts(caused by HPV infection and chances are less likely).
Apply warm compresses, Neosporin ointment and calamine lotion and avoid messing with it. You can take anti-inflammatory pain killers like ibuprofen or acetaminophen. If the lumps persist then it will be best to get it evaluated from a dermatologist.
Hope it helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing or if you have any additional queries.