From your description, I don't see why you have anything to worry about. You didn;t have oral sex, and the sore on her lip may not have been herpes anyway. Also, your penis symptoms and tongue numbness sound like anxiety symptoms, not herpes. So I suggest you relax, and avoid unprotected sex in the future to avoid more anxiety.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
., but this year seems it didn't clear up in a week like usualy...but seemed to be continuous and more painful for over 8 months now,
starts as buring in vag and palms of hands and feet, itching down there, discharge alot, red painful welts on my bum and connected area near anus and opeing of vag...(health clinic said it's not typical HSV but soemthign is going on causing me pain)
seems to have spread, eyes are very irritated and lots of discharge but this comes when the pain is most severe,
back of thights and inner thighs and ankles and heels hurt like hell deep inside to sit, stand or walk..but I cannot see anything but brown "age" spots started cropping up and very tender to even my clothes toughing my skin in these areas, even on my gums,
face (tiny clear bubles that start by feeling "tickly" and/or white pustules they say are pimples as well as hard skin colored rash on forehead and cheeks not going away with any ointments),
and aphtous? blisters in my mouth at gums and tongue etc.
I've been tested for everything bacterial (gonahrea, clymidya, syphillis) and viral (hep, hiv) like 5 times by 5 different doctors/oral surgeon and specialists....gyno, family GP, dermolotolist, etc...it seems to be spreading but they are telling me it is in my head. I know something is wrong, every bump i get viral swab is negative and altough the herpes imunoblot (most accurate) and the best thing to western blot came back negative for both hsv1 an 2. i am at a loss as my family members seem to be getting the brown spots and large red swollen patches like "hives" taht are itchy but seem to go away the next day...but recurring almost daily???? all coincidently since i moved home...any help woould be appreciated..
Remember though, that yeast infections can be VERY difficult... and may require you to change your diet to low sugar, low cholesterol, drink lots of water and exercise and stay clean! Shower every day! Also there are plenty of herbal treatments out there, www.thefinchleyclinic.com is a great source although they are in the UK you can still order from anywhere.
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These are what i have concerns about.