I had sex in December with female I was dating while going thru divorce. Since, my wife and I are reconciling. I washed my genitals immediately after sex. I washed my genitals with brevoxl face cream maybe a week later. 1-2 days after that, I developed itching and very dry skin, redness etc. I also felt a "clogged" area in my penis urethra maybe a week later and noticed mucous in my urine. I have been to my GP 7 times, two dermatologists and they say I am fine. I have also noticed on underside of penis head a pale discoloration. I have also been to a urologist, who did endoscopy and seen nothing. My GP treated me for gonorrhea and chlamydia in late January, although did not test me for it, which seemed to relieve the urethra problem a bit, but still had some feeling. 1.5 months after treatment I got tested for gon or chlamydia and came negative. Derm said rash on scrotum was dermatitis and gave me desonide ointment which definitely helped the rash. However, I feel a very prickly sensation on my penis and seems to be very sensitive noone seems to know what it is. I also feel a tingly ryhtmic sensation on bottom of penis like there is fluids going thru etc. If I squeeze my penis after urinating, a very small amount of semen like fluid seeps out. I do not have any discharge just coming out, but thru the day, it feels like thee is, but I dont ever see anything. It has literally taken over my every thought. I want to tell my wife, but I am scared of the ramifications. She has no symptoms of anything.
-Could pure anxiety cause all of these issues??
-Could I test negative for STD even If ive slept with wife several times after treatment and never got it back?
-What the heck is the prickly feeling on penis?
- Where do I go next, what do I do when everyone says im fine..I must get rid of this feeling even if it means getting divorced