ok so for the last 3 days i've had a really hard time pooping and when i did poop i had to wipe really hard and a lot to get everything clean, well 2 days ago my butt started killing from it and i didn't worry about it but today after my shower i noticed a bump or what could be a gash towards the bottom of my anus not on my anus but near it and the bump/gash w/e it is really hurts, what i was wondering was can wiping to hard or to much cause a bump or gash like that in the area where u were wiping?