freaked out by such a symptoms, i'm froestrated..

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hi all,..i'll try to make it breif as i can..
i had oral sex and anal sex with condom but my penis had scratch on it. with a girl whom
i don't here  just met in the bar.
after two weeks  a white furry lession appeared on the surface of the tongue and lasted untill now
you can say 6 months. i took medcation for it as flucanazol and nystatine but with no use..
i got tested for hiv eia 4 weeks, 52 days eia and pcr dna,  at 21 weeks eia test and  6 months eia hiv test and all came back negative and
i'm married and had sex with my wife and unfortunately she has the white lession now, beside that
she has small red pumbs with yellow bus in it on here face and when it drys it leaves a light brown mark nad that rashes are generative two or three pumps at one time.. ...my son 1 year is feeding from her breast and he also has what i think white layer on his tongue and that make my life misarable i guess it is similar to here mother..

i want aan answer for these questions and i appriciate that very much:
1) can the oral thrush be transmitted from hasband to a wife?
2) if it is std symptoms can the oral thrush be appeared as fasf as this period and last for long term?
please reply me
3) is there any relation between skin rash and the oral thrush
4)if the oral thrush has no relation with std, can the oral nthrush be transmitted from a mother to here son throgh breast feeding?
5)how can my wife get ride off the light brown mark on here face?
6)what is the right procedure and kind of test i should have so as to diagnose my family staus..

thanx alot..

[DEFEETHIV]

PLEASE HELP ME

[DEFEETHIV]

hi all,..i'll try to make it breif as i can..
i had oral sex and anal sex with condom but my penis had scratch on it. with a girl whom i don't know here  just met in the bar.
after two weeks  a white furry lession appeared on the surface of the tongue and lasted untill now you can say 6 months. i took medcation for it as flucanazol and nystatine but with no use..
i got tested for hiv eia 4 weeks, 52 days eia and pcr dna,  at 21 weeks eia test and  6 months eia hiv test and all came back negative .
i'm married and had sex with my wife and unfortunately she has the white lession now, beside that she has small red pumbs with yellow bus in it on here face and when it drys it leaves a light brown mark and that rashes are generative two or three pumps at one time.. ...
my son is 1 years old,  feeding from her breast and he also has white layer on his tongue and that make my life misarable i guess it is similar to here mother..

i want to ask these questions and i appriciate any response  very much:
1) can the oral thrush be transmitted from hasband to a wife?
2) if it is std symptoms can the oral thrush be appeared as fasf as this period and last for long term?  
3) is there any relation between skin rash and the oral thrush ?
4)if the oral thrush has no relation with std, can the oral thrush be transmitted from a mother to here son through breast feeding?
5)how can my wife get ride off the light brown mark on here face?
6)what are the tests that help to diagnose my family and myself?

thanx alot..