I have a peculiar butt rash that occurs about 1-2 times per year x2 years. I have a fear that this may be herpes, despite my extremely modest sex life.
The rash occurs about 1" above the anus, starts with itching and turns into bumps that continue to itch and are painful. This usually resolves within a week or two. I do occasionally notice oozing.
I've never had anal sex, only oral and vaginal and only with one partner. I am and have been in a monogamous relationship for the past five years. He is faithful, I truly believe that. I am faithful. He has never had any symptoms. I have actually shown him this outbreak and he doesn't think much of it but it still scares me. I find that this rash usually occurs after a bout of diarrhea. The most recent episode being with a bout of painful, burning diarrhea followed by a long bike ride and I did sweat.
I am so paranoid because my case matches my researched descriptions of herpes. I don't feel like my situation would logically point to herpes, but the symptoms are so similar I find it uncanny. Why would i have herpes on my buttcheek/buttcrack but never had anal intercourse of any kind? If anything should they be on the vagina? I've never had any of these symptoms on my vagina, actual anus, or oral area. Is it possible that he brought this into the relationship but he's been asymptomatic? (he's only had 3 partner prior to me, all while he was in HS)
Suggestions? Should I just get tested? I'm so embarrassed to see the doctor about this.
Thanks in advance for any help and advice!