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121828 tn?1333464491

One basset will be put down how will the other do?

I found out my 13yr old basset has a terrible cancer tumor and will be getting sick extremely fast the vet said.  Like, days..... I also have a male basset that LOVES her to death that will be 4 in October. He sat by the door the whole day while she was at the vet. He is very loyal to her and my heart breaks for him.  Is he going to mourn terribly, does anyone know?  I'm not looking to replace her, is he going to be okay :0(
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675347 tn?1365460645
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This touched my heart. Of course he will grieve, yes. But he still has you. You will feel very sad too, so keeping an eye on him will be a little harder at this sad time.
You have to expect him to grieve. When he does, leave him to do that for short times, then try to distract him by anything he enjoys, as have2kids said.
Don't (and I know this sounds strange)....shower him with affection whenever you see him depressed. In a dog's way of thinking, shows of affection from the 'pack leader' mean 'it's OK to feel that way/you're a good boy to feel like that'....If or when you find him like this be very normal, slightly upbeat with him, and call him to you to distract him with some walk, game, ball or frisbee...whatever. Then shower affection on him when you see his mood 'lift' a little.

I am so sorry you are facing losing your other dog like this. I know how hard it is. I have been there.
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127124 tn?1326735435
Yes, he will most likely mourn for her.  Dogs can get quite depressed.   He may stop eating and playing.   Keep a close eye on him.  Encourage him to do the things he enjoys.  Also expect some regressed behavior.  
It's so hard when the time comes to let them go.    
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