I am with my babies's father and we been together for 2 1/2 years now. Since young i had very low self esteem and i got that from my mother because she was the same way. I don't like my weight at all and my breasts, buttocks, legs, arms everything is too small and it aggravates and annoys me and most of the time it makes me angry. I hate the was my body is and i am trying to change it and its impossible. My metabolism is hyperactive fast. I lose weight faster than i gain them and it is so stressful and depressing. I try eating but i have a very poor appetite and i have to force myself to eat half of the time. I only like eating some things. Like burgers, lasagna, pizza, chicken Alfredo, mac and cheese and things like that. My hunger goes away fast also so when i'm starving and eating, my hunger goes away on the 5th spoon of food. I bought a protein shake to gain called serious mass hoping it would work. they said i need to eat 3 meals a day and that i between and i am hoping i can do it. I need help. I know i am stressed and lonely all the time. I am in a shelter and my baby father is living with his brother and we only see each other like 3 or 4 times a week for like 4 hours. I'm in Harlem and he is in BK. So traveling and fair money is killing us and i be thinking he cheats on me when he is not around me and it upsets him that i accuse him when he is not doing anything. But it bothers me. Maybe i am wrong about him cheating but because of my size i feel like he looks at other girls cause they have something i don't which is their body and i don't have anything. He says he loves me for me and he loves the way i am but i don't believe him because i don't love myself. What should i do?