I understand the desire to have another child. My little one is 8 yrs old and I wanted another one so badly. Was really hoping for a little girl to be my best friend when she got older, but it wasn't meant to be. My health got really bad right after my son was born and I wasn't able to have any more. Have also tried to adopt, but there is no way we can afford to. And DHS was not an option. Their plan is horrific on everyone involved.
I've consoled myself with the fact that I have a wonderful little one and I'm suppose to just enjoy him and make his life the best I can. Hopefully he'll marry a really nice girl who I can be really close to. :-/
But he's right, your health does come first. You're already here and your daughter needs a mother who can be healthy and happy. But remember you are not alone in this.
I started Sunday and it has been he//! Am hoping when I tell the new gyn, April 9 if nothing else goes wrong, about all that is going on he'll say "Let's get that mess out of there." I'm praying for that so hard. Don't know how much more of this I can take. The 800mg bolaces of Motrin are knocking enough off the pain to be able to function, but that's about it. And heaven knows I can't stay away from the bathroom for 15 minutes at a time. 24 hours a day. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Nope, you're not crazy...mine comes and goes with no warning. It started about 7pm on Friday and lasted all the way through Saturday. I don't understand it either, maybe something to do with estrogen levels changing? I though maybe mine was due to it being time to ovulate, IDK. Unfortunately it looks like there's no alternative for me, just hysterectomy and that's the last thing I need right now. My hubby says he can't stand seeing me hurt and as much as he'd like to have another child my health is his main concern...what a sweetie I have.