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Hi I am 23 yrs old and I just found out I am pregnant, I have had serious cases of endometriosis and cysts on my ovaries, I've had 2 laporoscopies and I've always been told I would find it difficult to fall pregnant, The problem is I'm not ready at this stage in my life to have kids, I need to know what to do. If i don't have it will I regret it later when I decide to have kids and struggle to fall pregnant. Or because I fell pregnant does it mean I will be able to do it again? If some one could help me!!!!!
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children are a gift from God. u may not see it now, but they r. it is your choice to destroy Gods creation, i would keep the baby. if you dont want the baby give it up for adoption.
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my suggestion better to keep it, because my doc told me i have very mild chance to get pregnant, i'm very afraid this happen...at least you have the luck...bring it on........
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889063 tn?1246818142
It's totally up to you weather  you should choose to have this baby or not....but,in my senario I have been trying to conceive for 5 yrs now and no luck.I also have endo..and just found out on April 28 when I had a transvaginal ultra sound that I have alot of cyst on my ovaries.If I was you I would go ahead and have the baby,there are sooo many women out there that want one soo bad but have not or can not you may regret it later in life becaude endo.only gets worse.
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My suggestion is Have a child. Forget about everything and have it. I am struggling to have children for 5 years, and I don't even have very serious problems just moderate endometriosis, that does't even bother me exept for infertility. It's your own life and you decide., but when you won't be able to have children you will never forgive yourself
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889105 tn?1241062284
Well honestly, nobody can tell you what to do. Whether or not ou have the child is something you need to decide on you own. I have endometriosis and i am 21. I have had two miscarriages in the past two years, and with both i was 4 and 1/2 months. I was recently told that is was due to the endometriosis. I mean some doctors will tell you that having a child will "cure" your endometriosis, which, i don't believe. Also if you choose the child there is a possibility that you could miscarry due to medical reasons. Also if you don't choose to have the child and some day you can't get pregnant, due, to the progression of the disease, you may regret it! However, there is always the choice that when you are ready to have children,if you can't carry one, then ou can adopt. Sorry I couldn't answer your question fully, but i hope this helped. :0)
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