I had unprotected oral sex with a sw about 8 weeks ago,they said it was no risk to HIV, but I have had headaches,diarrea,swollen liver and spleen,swollen tonsils,ear aches, headaches,joint paint,muscle aches,sore throat,tingles in hands, could this be mono? I'm still away to have a conclusive test for HIV and I would like to have some peace of mind