Can't seem to finish.

I am a 26 year old male who used to excessively masterbate. I still masterbate everyday. Now I have a girl and for a while we went without having sex so I started masterbating (masturbating) whenever I got horney or even sometimes when I was bored. Now we started having sex again and now I cannot ejaculate for the life of me. I get an erection and it feels good but I can't finish. I also do have some minor stressful situations in my life but nonof which I would say are too serious. The last time we had sex she was able to climax twice and I never did and she looked at me and asked me what was wrong with me?....Help please...Thank you

[Myron_Long]

Hi Sir, lets analyze this matter ( I can help)

In your younger days, how did your penis feel when you self-pleasure yourself? It should've felt VERY GOOD right??? In fact, it felt so good you didn't need to imagine anything or look at something like porn, right?????

But now you're older and I bet when you now rub your penis head, the sensation is not the same. In fact, you now need imagination or something like porn to excite your brain to force you to ejaculation right????

So now you're having sex, your mind is there but the pleasure is not. This is why you're taking forever to ejaculate or no ejaculate at all...

The problem is your penis head, it's lacking sensitivity. When you have sex, your penis head suppose to feel a high sensation at all times and wanting to ejaculate any second BUT you decide to hold it back to make sex last longer... This is how sex should be but you're experiencing the opposite. You can't get an orgasm if you buy one...

I know all this because I use to be in your shoes....

What I did was refrain from masturbation for 14 days. I didn't touch myself nor I let my girl touch me either. What I had to do was re-program the way my penis feels to touch (like my hand) and what my mind thinks towards reaching an orgasm (with the use of my hand)...

After 14 days, I did feel an increase in penis sensitivity but not a great one. So I kept refraining from masturbation and my penis sensitivity did continue to increase.

I also stop wearing boxers all the time. Boxers allow too much air to the penis (drying it out ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE CIRCUMCISED). I now wear briefs a lot and sometimes boxers.

So, before I couldn't ejaculate thru a condom, now I can...
Before I couldn't ejaculate from a hanjob, now I can...
Blojob... etc...
Catch my point?

So, I suggest to 2 main things you need to do above.... I hope you consider my advice.

Keep me posted...