Erectile dysfunction

[Timmy89]

It has just been 3 years since I got married. I am just 24 and my husband 31.. He was so intimate to me since marriage. I found a difference after our baby was born(that was 9 months after marriage).. I am so depressed because he was the one who wanted sex all the time , but now he does'nt have erection during sex.. But he got released when I used the hand..my husband is not over weight., but I am ,,I gained about 15pounds during pregnancy but I am on the way of reducing it.. I have caught him watching the porn three times...I am hating my life ...feel like going back to my mom n dad..he is affectionate and takes care of me in other times, but we r not intimate. I am confused as what and how to decide

[NOHARD]

Hi Timmy, You say you have caught him 3 times watching porn, so just how much do you think he views porn then, the problem with porn it can switch off his brain to sex, its not that he does not find you sexy anymore, its his brain its gone into a sexual overload.
Now you need to talk to him about it, one thing when he's out would be to install a parental lock for porn, see if you can fund where he has his porn sites, and get them cleared out, along with any porn downloads, that's unless he has them locked away in the computer, you could also look at the computer history, to see were he has been going to, that's if you want to go that way.
But he does have away out if he wants it, if he wants to get him to PM me, and I'll tell him what he needs to do, so you can both have a sex life back.
Good Luck

[boz5886]

Try giving him oral  that always works. And he could do the same for you.

[Caryopteris]

You should talk to him.  Maybe he is just sleep-deprived.  Maybe he could take some supplements like L-arginine and start working out.  That should rev him up a bit.  But it could just be lack of sleep.