Husband Loses Erection - Not attempted since

[mona947]

Just wanted to ask your advice my husband, we have been together 10 years, lost his erection 3 months ago and has not attempted to come near me since.  I have been understanding and have tried to talk to him about this as I am keen to resume our relationship as I love my husband but this is making me feel very unwanted.  My husband gets annoyed when I try and talk about it and just seems happy to ignore this problem.  He has been to the doctors and the Doctor has given him some viagra but we have not even used this.  

We do have busy lives which seems to be very much work orientated at the moment and little money so I know this can impact on things.  I am wondering though if he would just rather masturbate than have sex with me and what I can do or how to help?

I would appreciate your advice.

Thanks mona

[swampbuck]

I am taking the 10 mg does and it is working fine.. Good luck..

[mona947]

Thanks swampbuck glad to hear things are improving.  He has only tried the pills once and then took half of the dose.

Mona

[swampbuck]

had the same issue..

  I can relate,,, I was good to last 5min it was pitiful, my wife was on the verge of leaving me,, We both made a trip to my urologist to get me checked out ,everything looked fine. The doc gave me a sample pack of cialis and to make a long story short WOW.. I went from 5 min to 45 to and hour and my wife is have orgasms like crazy..YOU TALK ABOUT A BOOST TO THE EGO! It works for me maybe better then most but I will take it..

[mona947]

Thanks for the comments.

[NOHARD]

Hi Mona
Yes been there with Viagra, and the truth is that it makes us men, well some of us fill like a machine, when we just wont to do it naturally, so your question is a hard one.
So the problem can he still get a hard on, at any time, early morning wood is a good one to look out for.
But I think he should be the one who is here, but it sounds like its work to me, its on top of him, he needs to relax more, get him off fast food, eat healthy, cut out alcohol is a must, exetcise is a must even if its only walking, and see how things go from there.
But with us men you should not push it unless he wonts you to, but it sounds like he is shying away from it, and putting to the back of his mind, not a good thing for him to do.

Good Luck

[love_a_challenge]

if he chooses to just masturbate all the time that will make yall marriage worse.