A MUST READ!!!!! ITS UNBELIVABLE!!!!!!!!!!!

[alma0988]

I had my first IVF in Nov. 2011 this was a real journey for us. 10 dpt I did an HPT and it was BFP, we were so happy we couldnt belive that it was going so good. At 14dpt went for my beta and was 166. I went for my second beta and it was 80, how devastating my Dr. told me I was going to miscarrry. My numbers then went down to 40 and later went up to 80 then down to 40 then up to 170. we were going absolutly crazy, nothing showed up on the ultrasound in uterus or in my tubes. Well I finally started bleed and thought AF had came again another beta this was at 18. I thought I had miscarried but I was wrong, Christmas day around 3:00 pm I had very bad pains in my right ovary and my husband said that he thought it was ectopic and rushed me to the hospital. Guess what?. Ectopic in my right tube. I was bleeding pretty bad and my right tube was removed that very same day..

I still had 3 embies frozen and we we back March 9 2011 to have them transfered. We transfered 2 and this time my beta was BFN. Again we cried. We thought we had no more options because we dont have the money to do another cycle and how long would it take to save up the money again.. My doctor told us not to worry and said you are going to become pregnant, I thought he was just trying to make me feel better. He told us to call him the first day of my period. Well I called him this past Thursday and he told us to come in to his clinic Saturday morning.

When we arrived at the clinic all of the nurses and staff were very nice tu us. One of the nurses took us to the ultrasound room for the Doctor to have a look at my ovarys and we didnt understand why. My husband said to me how are we going to pay for this visit?.. The doctor did the ultrasound and told us to follow him to his office. We sat down in his office and he was telling us that he was going to start me on Gonal f today to begin our new cycle. My husband told the doctor that we cant do it because we dont have money to pay him. THIS IS WHEN WERE WERE ABSOLUTLY FLOORED!!!!!!!!!! HE ASKED IF WE BELIVED IN GOD AND WE SAID OF COURSE WE DO. HE TOLD US THAT THIS TIME WE ARE NOT GOING TO PAY A DIME. HE SAID THAT HE COULD SEE THE LOVE BETWEEN MY HUSBAND AND I AND WE ARE GOING TO MAKE EXCELENT PARENTS. HE TOLD US THAT HE IS GOING TO DO AS MANY IVF AS NEEDED FOR US TO HAVE OUR CHILD..

I cannot belive that this is real.. We now have the Gonal f and yesterday was my fist injection. This doctor is our angel and his clinic is very nice.. God is giving us a chance through this doctor to have our baby....

[Lisa070576]

Hey! How r u?? Congrats!! I remember u from my April forum when I did ivf cycle 1. It was negative. I just started#2 cycle n tom is my 5 day transfer. I hope I have more than one so I can freeze some. As of yesterday 3 out of the 4 fertilized looked good. I only produced 7 just like last cycle.
Congrats to u on getting pregnant!! It's a shame that we have to go thru all this, while othrs just POP them out.
How many did u transfer?? Were they Ur eggs? 3 or 5 day transfer??

[mhv]

That's awesome about your "future" sons! :0)  You are going to have a houseful!  How wonderful! Well, I hope when you test on Sunday, it's a big positive!  I will look for future moms! : )   Definately!!!!

[rmmoye]

A lot of women going through what u are  are in Future Moms  forum. Join us.

[rmmoye]

yes we have two foster children (boys) that we will adopted by the end of the year. We still have a few court dates before we can adopted them. My  oldest will turn 3 next month and the youngest will turn 2 in january. We got them back in April.  I was  actually prego when we met  the boys in march and lost that baby two weeks later.  I would be more then excited to have a baby and my two boys.

I will test next sunday and see if i get a bfp. because we did it natural this month I will have to call the re and set up betas if i do get a bfp. I have had sharp pains the last two days in my stomic and am going to the bathroom a lot with both numbers I know tmi. My boobs started leaking monday night. poor dh went to spiting and said  no mor playing with those until they stop that. That use to be my sign but i did it last month and it was bfn. I also did the for two months after i mc.

[mhv]

Girl, we sure have!!!!   You know, I remember reading about you at one time that you were going to adopt... are you still persuing that too?  How awesome would it be to have your own and adopted children!  
When is your  beta??

[rmmoye]

Me too! We both desearve it. U and i have had long journies.  I am hoping tha we get our blessings.  

[mhv]

How exciting!! :)  I sure hope you get your bfp! : )
I am doing an FET transfer on August 30th.  I am starting to get excited!  I try not to think about "it" to much, as it makes me a nervous wreck!  Doing lupron shots now, and start estrace patches on Thursday.  
I have my fingers and toes crossed that this is our month, and we'll be joining alma!!!!!

[rmmoye]

alma when is your next us ?


Mhv: R u doing ivf this round or are u taking a month off?

Ladies i am in tww. I will let u know how it goes.

[rmmoye]

Alma I am glad to hear that things are sstill doing good. It is great that he/she is os strong. I am excited for u.!!!

[traync]

I am so glad that things are going well for you & your family. We need to hear great news like yours!

[mhv]

Yay!!!   You deserve this so much!  I am so glad things are going along smoothly!  You have to post a pic of your lil bean!!!!

[alma0988]

Today I am 9 weeks 5 days pregnant and so far my baby is doing well. His o her heartbeat is 160bpm and is growing exactly as one would hope. For ultrasound my baby is showing 9 weeks 4 days and this was two days ago. I have seen the head and body with little arm and leg buds. I am so scared all of the time I just want to pass the first trimester and I think ill feel better... I still cant belive that im pregnant, lol...

I hope all is well with my friends here in the forum:)

[rmmoye]

Yeah!!! I am so excited about this! U had me worred after u didnt post on monday.

[alma0988]

I think those feelings of im gonna throw up started right after I ate my dinner::::::
Well im just going to have to deal with it. hahahahahaha..............

Bye;)

[alma0988]

Well we finally have a baby growing inside!!!!! My 6w3d ultrasound showed one healthy heartbeat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! After 4 iui 5 ivf 1 vasectomy reversal 1 ectopic with tube removed 1 chemical pregnancy and numerous lab work, I am PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I still dont belive it...
My doctor kept his word and now I have to pay!!!!!!! hahaha.....

GOD IS GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[alma0988]

Well right now everything looks good. The only symptoms I have are sore breast (.)(.) I dont feel pregnant yet hahahaha... I am thinking about going for an ultrsound Monday to see if there is a sac or sacs... After one ectopic you get a little scared.. The good thing about my country is you dont need a doctors order to have ultrasounds or other test. Right now I am at 5weeks 1day I think I should be able to see a sac by Monday.. It cost about 50 dollars here and thats about a half weeks pay for alot of people.

I am so excited to be pregnant I cant belive its happening to me..........
I will keep the forum posted...

chow for now:)

[rmmoye]

I was so excited to read your umbers. I cant wait to heare from u on July 11.  

Mtv please also keep us posted on how u r doing.  I am trying natural thiis month an dpraying it works so that i dont have to fork out a lot of money for a 4th iui.

[mhv]

Funny! I was just thinking the same thing about July 11th!   Too cool!  Great sign, for sure!  The embryos are very high quality, and frozen in 2's...so, as long as 2 survive the thaw, we will transfer 2.  If 1 passes, then we have to decide if we want to thaw 2 more, and poss transfer 3...hoping they both survive thaw so we do not have to decide! Haha!

[alma0988]

Wow we have our doctor appt. the same day July 11th. We are both going to recieve news the same day. How great to hear your embies arrived safe and sound... You are going to be pregnant soon I just know it. You desirve it after all you have been through and all the help and support you have offered us here in the forum.......

Have you thought about how many embies you are going to transfer????????

Good luck and keep me posted:)

[mhv]

You started with such a high# I'm sure your just fine :). I'm still thinking twins!!

[alma0988]

Update!!!!!!!!!! My second beta is in..... 479.........................

Well it is still good and im still pregnant and my baby is still growing.......
However it did not exactly double. I did the math and it is around 76% increase.. That is not bad because the normal is 2 to 3 days doubling time and my doubling time is 59 hrs..
My next date is July 11th for my first ultrasound. This too is going to be stressful!!

I dont know how I could handle all of this without you ladies here in the forum

Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!  

[delilah1546]

your story is not only encouraging but inspirational that as long as you keep the faith you will always have a guardian Angel allocated to you. your doctor is a God sent angel never ever forget to tell and testify to everybody that God really exist and He ia a leaving God. 10 or 20 years from now you will not have the urge to sire a child you will have lots of things to attend too. your babies will be teenagers if not young adults and the demands will be immense. But dont forget to reming  them just how miraculous they were conceived.
i am gratefull for you post such stories encourage and help us keep going. encourage ladies to go to your doctors clinic do not be afraid to copy paste this story to all forums because you have trully experienced the goodness of your doctor and determination it is in order if you can get him as many clients as he can possibly handle. iwish i was anywhere near america i would have been one of his clients too. Good luck to you and i pray the Babies stick till 9 months what God has started He will definately finnish

[mhv]

Ok.  I will sit patiently and wait for your post : )  

Hugs!

[Hoping2BAMom]

I am just beyond excited for you!  I cna't wait to hear what your numbers are today.  I'm sure they're going to have doubled if not tripled!  You're in my thoughts and prayers always.