Had appointment at fertility things are as I expected but I feel devastated

Hi
Well some of you are probably aware from reading my previous posts that I have ttc for a year and that I am old 37 with thyroid problems not controlled yet.
I have been experiencing irregular cycles, and other symptoms which have gradually got worse and I have suspected for a while that I may have premature menopause.
Had my appointment at the fertility clinic yesterday and fsh which was 16 in April is now 62.
They said it could either mean premature menopause, or premature ovarian failure.
I feel totally devastated and I have a overwhelming feeling of sadness hanging over me.
They said if its premature menopause the only way for me to have a baby would be by donor egg.
I am not even sure about the course of action they have decided if its the right thing or not, or even worth it.
I also don,t know know if I even think much of this feritlity clinic I am going to, the guy sat there and told me my blood tests were normal and I could see on his notes that my fsh was written down as 62 I pointed this out to him and then he decided to go and ask the main consultant who was with another patient for his opinion who then said that such high fsh was probably down to ovarian failure or early menopause.
The course of action that has been decided for me is that I take the contraceptive pill for 21 days and then wait and see if I get a period if I do indeed get a period then my problem is most likely ovarian failure if I don,t then its probably menopause.
They also said they can then do a laproscopy on the ovaries to confirm menopause if no period.
I am not sure about taking these pills could it makes things worse I am not sure.
Please help I am so confused.

[Tygerlillie]

Hi There-

If it were me- I think I would go to another doctor and see what they tell me.  Also, there might be some things you can do to get your period regulated.  I wouldn't give up so easy.  I would def.  see what all options are.

I do hope it gets better for you.

PS I f you want to know if it is menopause there is actually a test you can buy at CSV or walgreens and it will tell you.

[LEELOU25]

Hey, i have to agree i would get a second opinion before taking anything, i dont think they'd give you the pill if it would harm you. Are they 100% sure if you dont start your period its early menapause? If not i would go for for a 2nd opinion or you'll spend the month stressing and if it doesn't come you'll presume the worst, and it might not be that. I feel for you. Good luck in your decision.
Lisa

[bny807]

I agree with the girls above.. 2nd opinion is a good idea.. also the FSH can vary month to month as well (up and down) Good luck with everything, my thoughts are with you!