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#'s are in...another m/c

well i just got the numbers back and hcg dropped to 88. looks like another mc. maybe it is time i throw the towel in. 5 m/c in 13 months should be a sign. thanks for all your prayers ladies :(
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178698 tn?1228774338
Sorry Rita!  I know how sad and disappointed you must feel.  I'm in the same boat with you this month.
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126454 tn?1328019022
Oh, I am so sorry and sad for you.  I know how much you want this b/c I want it for myself.  Have you gone through any testing?  Does the doctor know why you've had 5 in a row?  I've had 3 in a row and will be getting blood work done in the next few weeks.  My cousin had 5 m/c in a row but still managed to have her son. She didn't give up.  You never know what the future holds.   There is always hope, don't let it go.  Oh geez, I know how sad you are and I know how much this hurts.  Seeing your post is like re-living my last m/c.  It's unexplainable.  Good luck to you and try to stay positive.  I know it's not easy but it does help.  Melinda
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178239 tn?1277405491
I can't say how sorry I am. I really was praying hard for you. I know there's nothing anyone can do to make you feel better. Just know we are here and we're thinking of you.
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158812 tn?1189755826
I am so sorry to hear the news.  I will pray for your recovery emotionally and physically.  

Prayer said, take care...(((hugs)))
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so so sorry, it's a living nightmare, the worst.  Know we are thinking of you, and we are all in this together. There are no words to tell you how sorry I am
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178590 tn?1294176767
I am so sorry I know how badly I still feel the emotional pain after only one MC  but you are in my prayers and just keep your head high.
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164559 tn?1233708018
I am so sorry this is happening to you again.  Have you been seeing a specialist?  Do they have any idea why you are mc?

Only you can decide when you no longer want to continue to try.  We couls give you those standradr answers, like "it wasn't meant to be" or "you can try again" or "you could always adopt", but that wouldn't help at all.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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178295 tn?1196985933
I am so sorry for your loss, but I don't think you should throw in the towel.  I posted before about my dh's stepmom who had 12, you saw right, 12 m/c's.  They went thru multiple IVF's!!  They told her to relax and a friend suggested baby aspirin and without any assistance BAM!!!  Now my dh has a younger sister and brother (ages 12 and 10 respectively).

God is going to come thru for you sweetheart.  Just hold on.  I know the road seems hard now, but it will pay off in the end.

Blessings always.
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Words can't express how sorry I am for you.  My heart breaks.  Please stay strong and follow your heart.  Only you will know what to do.  Good luck.
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I am soooooo sorry Rita, I read this at work and then I prayed my whole drive home. I prayed for a miricle and for the numbers to be wrong, I prayed for you to heal and I prayed for everyone on this site and on twoweekwait.com site to please please please all get pregnant, have a healthy and uneventful 9 months and deliver  healthy beautiful babies. we all deserve it. Rita I will continue to pray for you, please do not through in your towel, you will see these 5 babies you have lost once you get to Heaven, please do not throw in the towel. God bless you!
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I'm so sorry. I thought of you today and wondered how you were doing. Don't give up hope. I can't help but think of Jer. 29:11. God has a plan for you with a hope. Not calamity. I know how you feel. This is my 5th m/c too. Plus, I'm pushing 39 yo. I just have to hang onto God promises. You do the same. Okay?  Don't let the devil have a hayday with you. We'll both get our babies soon. :0) Hang in there.   Prayers for you!
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I am so sorry!  I know how disappointed you are!!  The only comfort I can tell you is to not give up if its something you really want.  You are in my prayers!
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