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BFN this morning

I really wasn't expecting much. I mean, it's 10 dpo, and I'm 41 and have diminished ovarian reserve. I know it's not over till the witch shows her ugly self, but I'm not counting on anything. We will continue to try! I will do another round of Clomid and keep going to acupuncture. We have a telephone consultation on Monday with an adoption agency. It's good to get that process started. :0)
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FRER is better than the others without FMU but you never know. I know this waiting is crazy. But if you do get AF, just know your mind is not playing tricks on you. Clomid changed me completely. Since I've taken meds, now my periods are a day shorter. I used to not get cramps until after my bleeding started now I get backaches, cramps, headaches, etc days before AF. It also gave me that metallic taste, it made me warm, carsick, lightheaded, etc. I'm going to start calling Clomid "Uncle Chuck" because he and Aunt Flo are my least favorite relatives.
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Nope. No line. The "line" kept moving so my eyes were definitely playing tricks on me. I'll try again tomorrow...
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OMG REALLY?!?!  A FAINT LINE?!?!  SERIOUSLY!??!?!  Go check and post back!!!!!  HOLY POOOO!!!!!
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I just took our the test and looked at it under my desk. I work with all men in a tiny one-room office. It's past the time you should check it but I might might might see a very faint line. I'm not sure because the light under my desk *****. I think my eyes are just playing tricks on me. I'll go to the bathroom and look again.

This suucks.
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I just did a FRER. It was negative. It wasn't with FMU, but since my period is officially a day late, I would think it would show with any urine, right?

pertykitty: Thanks for sharing that. I love those stories.
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sue i was talking to a friend of mine last night.  one of her friends just adopted a baby boy.  she tried to get pg for many many years and was told it would never happen.  well that baby boy she adopted is now maybe  5 months and guess what?  she is pg!!  i have another friend that had one child early, like at 17.  she went 20 yrs without using b.c because her and her dh were told kids wouldnt happen (her dd was from another man).  she now has 2 more!! there are so many promising stories out there.  

i just wanted to share some hope ;)
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