I’ve recently had two surgeries (one key hole, one that left a 6inch vertical incision), and each time the medical staff were incredibly well informed and supportive of Fibro. It was a pleasant surprise, I was really expecting to have a hard time explaining my needs, but there was no judgment, no disbelief, and I got the sneaking impression they were taking me saying “3 out of 10,” to mean 6. I defiantly was taken more seriously than other patients when I complained of pain/discomfort.
But what really got me was that the hospitals both had a policy to ensure their patient’s pain was kept under a 2 out of 10 at all times. And they really lived up to it.
My fibro pain can vary a lot, but I never get pain free days, and it’s quite rare for my pain to be below a 2. Needless to say I was quite a content patient during my stay, because even with a 6 inch hole from pubic bone to belly button, I was a lot comfier than I had been in years.
(Expect when I threw up. Oh dear god did that hurt.)
The nurses asked me how I managed my pain at home, were saying that even at home I should be aiming to keep my pain under a 2 out of 10. They were quite insistent that this should be my goal for the fibro pain as well.
For me, that’s just unobtainable. The endone tablets they sent me home with come close (some nights they achieved it, other nights they didn’t), which isn’t exactly a long term solution. My goal is never getting over a 4, and if I can’t achieve that then it’s just to keep things bearable.
So. In your personal experience and opinion, what should we be aiming for with our pain medication?
Should we be striving for a particular number out of ten? To keep it just low enough to keep active? Or just to keep the pain within what we can live with?