Hi - more frequent toilet visits are indeed a feature after a total colectomy. I found this after my own operation and, in response to anothetr medhelp patient I described my experiences on:-
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/523166
I have also found that over a period on ~1 year the number of toilet visits decreases gradually.
May I suggest trying a diet with a higher fibre content - and especially try to introduce oats and bran to your diet. In my case thyis made my motions more "muddy/sludgy" rather than liquid and avoided any accidents. I make the analogy that it seemed rather like cleaning up a spillage of liquid on the kitchen floor by throwing sawdust down on it.
You will always require more visits to the toilet than before but I think that the number is not such a problem as the consistency of your motions. Look at it this way:-
- you probably go to the toilet ~8 times a day to do a #1. Well the number is visits will not increase dramatically if you can do a #2 at the same time as a #1. What you need to work on is a diet that "bulks up" your motions.
Good luck
Morecambe