yup, it really is as simple as that. Of course our minds do its best to play tricks on us, more so when guilt is involved and we belive we could give the other person ( the partner HIV ) but the facts when you think with a clear head are simple. In a sexual way, only unprotected sex is a risk, nothing else buds.
(sorry it got posted without me finishing it)
or kissing with a decayed tooth or any other contact is really worth it?
Thanks Apollo1971, I know guilt plays a big role in my current state of mind but I am unable to shake off that feeling this time.
Is it really that straight forward when people say that a no risk situation, I.e., absence of unprotected (anal/oral/vaginal) is really no risk? I mean any amount of re-spinning situations like touching vagina/ sitting in a place with potential of dried or wet fluids on surfaces or my clothes being wet from my semen
I dont see where your concern is? You have not had sex, which is how HIV is passed on, you have kept your clothes on.
Their is no mystery to HIV transmission, its not like magic, it dosnt jump around and sneek inside your clothes or hides behind a chair and jumps out on you.
Your issue is guilt, pure and simple, so stop going to these places is my best advice.
Just hoping someone can respond.. Previously I used to go to the very strip club when I had these concerns to reassure myself and would fall into that loop.. But now I really don't want to go back to a strip club and am looking for other ways to cope with this. It has been incredibly lonely and difficult for me emotionally. Would appreciate any help that I can get.